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DeeAna
DeeAnaSingle
Posted October 15, 2009

This same guy has been txting me the first txt explaining why he has not been able to txt me and he was sorry, the second txt was saying guess what?? when I answered saying I had no clue what? he waited for a little bit then txt back nothing just wanted to say hi! I'm not sure to really how to proceed with this..just a friendship maybe..

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Posted October 14, 2009

He just wants to have sex with you and every other girl who is willing to oblige him.

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The MatchMaking Expert
The MatchMaking ExpertTakenIt's always interesting
Posted October 12, 2009

Men typically don't beat around the bush.

It means exactly what he states.

"I don't want to lead you one" = "I'm not interested in you....(for a LTR)"

"He's not expecting anything" = "No intention of anything serious"

If you don't like the answer or need more clarity, just ask him directly what you want to know. Here are some questions you may want to ask:

What are you looking for?
What are you hoping to get out of this relationship?
How do you feel about me?
Where do you see us in 3 months from now? 6 months?...future?
What ARE your relationship goals?
What EXACTLY do you mean by that? If you don't want to lead me on? What do you want to do?

Good luck!

Carmelia

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betelgeuse
betelgeuseSingleHey babes... how's-'bout-you-N-me...
Posted October 12, 2009

It means "superfiscial" relationship... meaning "shallow" and "trivial" and "simple" and "uncomplicated" meaning... without obligation and committment. Not leading you on means... not o delude you, no false pretenses, nothing there for you to read into, not interested in anything deep or deeper, do not invest emotionally, no reason for intuition, nothing of value to anchor to.

That is what he means.

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Qverb
QverbTakenRugburns, sarcasm, giggling, beautiful
Posted October 12, 2009

You might want to give us some more info for a better answer.

Otherwise he could be simply saying that he isn't really looking for a relationship right now. Your best bet is to ask him straight forward what he means by what he says.

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