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How do I go about helping my wife live out her fanasy about making love with another woman and myself.

As I have opened up to my wife about my own fantasies, she has opened up to me about hers which involved having another woman for herself either with or without me involved also.

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Rocketman
RocketmanMarriedmarried
Posted September 11, 2009

I've decided not to go along with her idea, but have said go find yourself a woman to date and we can go from there.

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BookMama
BookMamaMarriedHappily Married
Posted August 30, 2009

It takes courage to do things that men aren't "supposed" to.

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caroline
carolineMarried
Posted August 30, 2009

dude man up seriously grow some balls don't cross dress you loser its every mans dream to ave a threesome so encourage her to find a woman to date!

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Rocketman
RocketmanMarriedmarried
Posted August 30, 2009

She has come up with an answer today. Instead of bringing another woman into our bedroom, she wants me to get into cross dressing for her.

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Gauntlet
GauntletSingleChristian Single Patient
Posted August 30, 2009

I you value your marriage and your wedding vows the answer is.

You don't! First from a spiritual/moral point of view, it's a sin and wrong to do so. Wither you accept that, only you can decide between you and God.

Besides that being the main factor, secondly it's been well known that couples who get anyone else involved in the bedroom end up regretting it because feelings almost always get hurt and someone ends up jealous.

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