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hi to say is that now days it all bout the women not the kidor kid"s.i used date a women that had two kid"s she thought my job was to replace the kid"s father where they left off at.i"ve two kid"s 21&17 .her"s wre 13 &11 .ican relate to this i have no problem with it .but,let have an understanding first and what"s my role of the friend that leads to becoming lover"s.
I am engaged to a wonderful woman who has a daughter from a previous relationship, and there are so many reasons that it is a hard move to make.
If a woman has a child, it is going to come first and foremost, this is hard when if you want a serious relationship you want to be number one in your girls heart. Of course there is the "YOUR NOT MY DAD!" conundrum, kids do not like step parents, or anyone who may become one. what else... oh yeah, you obviously loved another person enough to have a child with them, and if your kid is young enough, you still have to have a relationship with that person, at least untill your kids are grown, and face it do you want your new man hangin out with his ex girl? what if he falls in love with you and something sparks yuour old relationship?