My partner and I have been together for almost 3 years. We officially broke up in April but around May/June time frame we working things out and got back together. Things are much better than before but just recently I told her the I told her neighbors that we are back together. She just recently freaked out and told me that we are not together and she has a huge commitment issue. She has been married twice, she divorce them both. She doesn't like the labeling part....ie girlfriend. She feels trapped. Also, she had a very high libido and now she says that she isn't horny any more due to the fact that she feels trapped and smothered. How can I work with her to overcome this major commitment issue?