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should i wait r move on
i started seeing this guy we got really close and i really got to caring about him alot then he decided that he needed time alone and its been like a month and a half and we havent really talked since to say talked so i just dont know wat to do i want to give it until the end of the month cuz he was amazing at everything but i dont know that i can wait that long and then if i do what if i still dont here from him then wat im just very confussed maybe u guys can help
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I know how you feel. I have been there and kind of going though the same thing. After a month, my guess would be he didn't know what he had, and so he's missing out. I think that when you make a connection, and you don't maintain interest, then you don't deserve what you have. My significant other half told me that she just doesn't love me anymore and kicked me and my 9 year old out, I'm very hurt, and its going to take time to heal. If he had any respect for you, he would have told you what the new phone number was, and so you wouldn't have had to write three letters, and if he needed time and he respected you, he would have had the decency to tell you why because you at least deserved that much.
no i didnt call he had to change the number and i dont have the new number but i wrote 3 letteres and went to his place and drop 2 of them and the third one i mailed last friday and still havent heard anything yet
thank all u guys and matt its too bad ur taken sounds like ur a good guy
Evn when you connect with someone, it isn't always strong enough to turn into something. Go out and eventually you will find someone who is interested in you and stays interested.
Chalk it up to experience. he lost interest for whatever reason. Sometimes you have to be really careful when things start of hot and fast. Those types of relationships (for lack of a better term) tend to fizzle out fast.
Don't you just hate that? Why wait? He lost interest. Have fun! Whenever I hear that "I need time alone," I don't wait for anyone...whether it is right or wrong. I have things to do...people to see. Why can't everyone just be honest about how they feel whenever they are on a date or in a relationship? A month and a half is way too long! Did you ever call him? Did you ask why he needed time alone? As a matter of fact...time speaks for itself.
This is always a hard subject waiting or not. From my experience if he didnt stay with you in the first place and has been gone for a month and a half he not a keeper. And this is coming from another man, Im sorry to say but he must have lost interest