Asked by daqueengurl on
How can I get the best i want out of him without offending him?
I just met a guy that i actually fall in love with. I discovered there is something missing in this guy that i would not like in my man. I don't want to break his heart and besides, this is something that can be corrected. So, if it can be corrected, why leave him? but the problem is, how do I tell him to correct himself in this area without hurting his feelings? Or I should probably get another man that will have this missing quality in my present guy.
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Well if the problem bothers you and you can't over look it, my guess u need to move on. He is who he is and the same for you. It will only cause problem down the line and things will really get out of hand. I'm thinking except him or move on. Where does your heart lie??
Gonna have to agree with The Lyz on this one. It's very important to know what's not there. In the interim, it might help to ask yourself if this item is a dealbreaker for you. Is it something you would "like" to have in your man (good taste in seafood resturaunts) or something you "need" in your man (honesty, a job, cooperation). Please get back here and fill us in so we can better understand your problem.
First off, I think you need to be more specific. What is missing? Does he not brush his teeth or does he not want to have kids? What it is will determine your course. It also depends on whether he is willing to change. But I would try working this out before leaving him. Please let us know what the "something missing" is and I'll do my best to help you out.