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Married
getting a little better

Nude photos of your spouse or partner?

My wife has never let me take revealing photos of her. She recently went out of town with my daughter and her parents and allowed me, without me asking, to take a nude photo of her. I was and still am shocked she gave me this gift. I have since deleted it from my phone and have it hidden on a thumbdrive in a safe place, I want nobody seing my wife naked but me. Is it normal to have nude photos of your partner? I think it is sexy and shows trust. I would rather see a picture of her naked and pleasure myself than to see a picture of another naked woman like a model or porno star.

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Single
tracymendez1985 on y!msngr...

it's an expression of trust and i totally believe it's ok. just because you got divorced or fall out of love doesnt mean you stop being human.

Single
What? A status update?
"I can relate"

It's great but they can turn on you if someone has some of yourself....which could become quite embarrassing (it hasn't happened to me, luckily, but just be careful)

Married
good
"I can't relate"

rather creepy kind of demeaning

Single
Single
"I can relate"

It's great, but there are drawbacks. Pictures are permanent and relationships can fall apart. My ex-brother-in-law showed me pictures of my sister. He just handed them to me and told me to "check these out!" I should have kept them, but I was so pissed off at him that i tossed them at him and told him off. I have never told my sister that he showed me pictures of her. They were seriously XXX rated. He did that on purpose, I think because he used to have sex with his sister when he was growing up. He never told my sister that and I am not about to tell her either. They are divorced now, thank goodness. The point is, you better be careful! I don't think it is such a good idea, but given the incident I went through with it... I am not sure if I am being objective, or subjective! He has control of the photos because he has them in his posession! I regret not grabbing them and throwing them away. I was just so angry that I didn't even think of it.

Engaged
complicated, one-sided, unfulfilling
"I can relate"

My wife recently let me take a few pictures of her in various degrees of undress. I loved it, and told her often. I tell her how I love to just sit quietly and look at them on my phone when I'm bored at work, or on a long ride, so long as no one else can see, of course!
I was very happy when she asked if she could have similar pictures of me, but she has yet to take, or even accept any....

Married
Newly married
"I can relate"

If you marry someone, you should trust them completely. That is what hidden files are for on the computer :)

Starting Over
Recently divorced and dating

Its great until you get divorced. I have pics of my ex and she has them of me. No telling who she's shown them to.

Complicated
"I can relate"

I just recently gave my partner the same gift after he has been asking me for several months. I decided to surprise him the other day, and he surprised me too. He gave me the sex of my life.

Complicated
always interested
"I can relate"

I think it is great to have a trusting partner who thinks you look fantastic...enough so that he/she would want to share with those whom are interested....share with anyone over 18!

Married
baby on the way

that's very cool - neat to see how much it meant to you and how sensitive you are about this "gift" - definitely shows an admirable level of trust and intimacy.

Single
"I can't relate, but I hear ya"

Sounds fun. Don't post it on the internet even if you're really mad, it's just poor taste, bro.

Married
5 years happily married

I imagine that your wife loves the idea that she's the "fantasy woman" for you; that's very cool. And I second Lyz's comment, just take extra precautions to keep those photos private and hidden from curious eyes.

Married
SLOW,SLOWER,SLOWEST,STOPPE.....

SOUNDS GOOD TO ME LETS HAVE A LOOK-SEE

Complicated
"I can't relate, but I hear ya"

She probably picked up the idea from her boyfriend.

Married
Community Manager
"I can't relate, but I hear ya"

This may seem unnecessary, but don't let it be any where your kids can potentially see it at all. But you probably know that.

Single
terminally single

Now that she's surprised YOU, maybe you can return the favor?! Some couples have professional, tasteful sessions with a professional photographer so they have something special when the other is not around. The big thing is keeping it in a safe place & should you break up, that the pics don't end up online! =)

Complicated
Thinking hard about love
"I can relate"

It is AWESOME! Keep it safe from prying eyes and maybe reciprocate by giving her something to get her hot when she's not with you.

Taken
Rugburns, sarcasm, giggling, beautiful
"I can relate"

Thats great for you! I personally find no fault with the practice and also enjoy it very much, but I understand how some people have concerns over such images being put up on the internet after a bad break-up or a fight. Its great that she not only trusts you completely but is also still so playful!

Married
Happily Married

I think it's great. Just keep it in a safe place.

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