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What turns a girl on?

What turns a girl on?
I am always seeking to discover new ways to please my woman. So share your thoughts!
What is it that turns you on girls?

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ScottJnsn
ScottJnsnTakenMonogamy. Romance. Trust. Affection.
Posted July 10, 2009

thank you for your answers! I figured as much =)
A woman is a delicate and beautiful creation. Although gentle is not always what they want right? ;) haha same with guys.

What turns me on is gentle caress on my body, and kisses. Strip tease doesn't involve physical interaction, but can be very sexy without being slutty. Confidence is sexy, and can be show physically and body language like body and with the eyes. Too much aggression like biting and scratching and french kisses, to me, can lose its pleasure. Sure I love agression, and a little playful biting isn't bad, but too much can make me lose focus on the pleasure, and more about running away! haha. I'm not a sissy, I just like aggression in moderation, to be subtle and used appropriately.

I love foreplay, and the most important thing to me in intimacy is pleasing my woman. If she is not pleased, i'm not. So i tend to focus on foreplay instead of trying to jump right into it. I love it to last, because kissing on my woman is as pleasing to me as it is to her. I feel really connected.

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amh
amhSingleI love love!
Posted July 10, 2009

Well for me as a 26 year old woman what turns me on his honesty and a man who is a gentleman. Yeah, I know it may sound a little lame.. but that is what does it for me.

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noangel293
noangel293Takenfalling in love.
Posted July 10, 2009

Most woman love gentle caressing... of her neck, back, etc... mostly it depends on the girl... so never hesitate to ask! but most women like to start out the gentle caressing... then move onto kissing... then progress to kissing, ahem, other...more personal regions! lol but thats the best way to get a girl started.

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