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My girlfriends best friend doesn't like me and now she is hiding our relationship. what does this mean?

I am a lesbian and have been seriously dating my girlfriend for 4 months now. Her best friend doesn't like me and I think it's becauswe she has a crush on my girl. Well ever since her best friend stopped liking me she is now hiding our relationship from evreryone and this really hurts!

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noangel293
noangel293Takenfalling in love.
Posted July 8, 2009

I agree you need to talk to your girl... it's not fair for you to be hidden because of what her best friend thinks... communication can work miracles :-) good luck hun

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BookMama
BookMamaMarriedHappily Married
Posted July 6, 2009

I think you need to talk to your girlfriend about how it makes you feel that she is hiding your relationship. What keeps going through my mind is, people fought for years so that lesbians could be open about their love, and now she wants you to hide yours?

I don't think it's healthy for a relationship to be hidden from everyone. You need to decide if you're willing to put up with that. You might also want to think about the possibility that your girlfriend is hiding another relationship from you.

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