Asked by in love 5 on
how would you feel about your lover hanging out with a girl / guy they cheated on you with
ok iv bein with my boyfriend 2 and a half years and hes cheated 3 times and yesterday was my birthday and we hung out but then i got tired and went home an that night he said he was helpin a friend out turns out it was her they didnt have sex and he dint cheat but dont i have a right to be mad considering i told him if they talked i couldnt be with him so should i leave him or stick it though and see if he can keep his promise to me starting now??????
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i kind of in the same kind of situation the only difference is that we were in a open relationship the time the cheating happen so i don't know it if i can say he was cheating but anyways the girl became friends with his roommate and now spends time over the house with him he has never lie to me before even about the grimy things he told me the truth so when this girl come over i his says he diesn't even talk to this girl. this first few times when he told me she was over there i would show up just to observed. he wouldn't talk to her and she didn't say anythings to him but she would say slick shit under her breathe. now when he tell me she over there i trust him because he tells me and he doesn't lie if he had hide the fact that she was there it would be a problem but as long as he's honest i don't think you have anything to worry about
First Off When he cheated the second time tthat woud have been over and done with ,and plus its someone he cheated on u with ,so obviously he dosent care bout it, and trust love he will do it again, as long as u keep accepting him back he will chear, i beenthere done that, but i cant tell u what to do because people are going to do what they want regarless, im just giving advice, and plus he lied to u...the Typical Thing to do when ur not trying to get caught "Cheating' "Again" so no he shouldnt hang out with anyone he cheated on u with love, so move on. well put it like this if u trying to make ti work and he is trying to then hell go for it, but if he constanly keeps gdoing the same ish,and ur letting him he will get over on u Point Blank Period. ( i call it being dumb, iwas dumb before, lol)
This man is untrustworthy. Sorry Tbone, but I disagree. You don't need an agreement, you need trust and this man is clearly not doing anything to build trust or earn trust. That doesn't need to come through an agreement that needs to come through him being a decent human being.
The real question here is why are you still with him? You can't trust him and he obviously doesn't respect your or your relationship. You deserve much better than this.
If you made an agreement with him about this girl, then you should stick to it. If you don't, he's going to feel that he can get away with anything, meaning he'll do it again.