Asked by NotSoCuriousGeorge on
My boyfriends youtube subscription to a "booty poppin" video
My boyfriend is a musician. He posts his music on his youtube page. I enjoy his music and the videos he post and will check them out from time to time.
So today I went to see what videos he subscribes to on youtube and want to know if that is consider being nosey? When I looked at his subscriptions he subscribed to some girls booty poppin videos...
Now I don't care if he watches porn, but for some reason this subscription to a booty poppin video on youtube honestly kinda pissed me off.
I don't know if he typed in a search looking for booty videos or if came up under the related videos, he saw an ass and decided to watch. BUt now every time this girl posts a new video, he will be alerted.
Am I looking too deep into this? Is this the same difference as watching a porno? If there is a difference to you, what is it?
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I can understand what you mean, I just ran into the same problem recently. I found video's under my boyfriend's Youtube account by accident (he forgot to log out), and I persumed I was on mine, and clicked on "favourites". I was quite upset, because the setting too me is completely different from a porno. Fantasizing about the "act" vs. fantasizing about "another girl" are both completely different things too me, and that he had labelled them as favourites it upset me even more. The thought of thinking he enjoys watching other girl's strip-teasing in their own bedroom on a webcam, really upsets me, and almost makes me feel unimportant in a way. I don't mind him watching porn at all, but this I found to be a little different. So yes, to answer your question I find them to be very different things. You have to remember though that most guys will watch stuff like that, regardless if they have a girlfriend or not, but if the guy really cared and appreciated your guys' "sex life", I don't think he would feel the need to look at videos like that, but that's just my opinion! I'm quite upset about what I found under my boyfriends account, and am still not quite sure how to approach the situation, if I should even.
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if you let him see naked girls, why not clothed ones? youtube does not allow nudity... so you should feel more secure in him looking on youtube than anywhere else in my opion. But it's all about how you feel and you perceive things.. so take some time to think about it before you talk to him about it.