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why do men love sex????
im just wondering why...
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It's all two delicious dopamine receptor number 2 sending out all those rewards.
makes you act to increase it.
A man being attracted to a woman increases dopamine 2 and feels good.
;)
nature !!!!!!!!!!!
My boyfriend tells me he loves making love to me so much because he loves the facial expressions I make and he loves making me have orgasms. most of the time that is his only desire is to accomplish this and then in return I make sure he is well pleased also. I am 35 and he is 39 and sometimes i think my sex drive is more than his. but we have sex every oppurtunity we have including when the kids say they are going outside to play.
I always want sex more often than my boyfriend. I am always asking or begging.
Because sex is the closest you can be to another person...
Men and Women both and near equally like and have a natural need for sex. I think men are just more verbal about it thats all!
and from hanging out with my guy buddies, they sometimes are amazed at how much I think about it. So dont fall for the stereotype.
Someone said that Sex is equally a result of love..this is so not true!
Love and sex are totally different.
Sex is made to be good and whats is good can beenjoyable so in this case if the sex is Good then we will both like to have it and that means Good sex makes sex continues but Bad one ..STop.....well am here insearch of true love...does it really exist and you can reach me on hotninja9@yahoo.com to share your Intimate Views.Janet
There is no one answer, that will answer the question of why men love sex. It all depends on where the man is in his life's evolution. I have been in relationships where it has strictly been for the sex alone, where it's been strictly for "show" and even where I felt compelled to perform sexually. Some were for release only, some to entice a woman deeper into my play, most were for my own shallow reasons. But thru them all, at the moment of release, I felt as if I was one with (.......) That was the primary reason for my continued search for sex, reaching for that one or two seconds of oneness.
In my current relationship, it's used to enhance and further our shared love. Sex has become more sensual, more fulfilling and "yes" more loving for both of us. Two really can become one; there is absolutely nothing that I wouldn't do for this woman. Our love making is about "Making-Love", nothing less. Through her release I feel complete and sated even before I release. I have never felt so thoroughly and completely satisfied in my entire life.
I'm 60 and never knew that it could be like this - the time I wasted on the trivial type of sex is astonishing.
Don't think of it as wasted time it was a learning experience to find out what you liked and needed out of a relationship.
I don't love sex, I mean, it's ok, but I just enjoy spending time with someone. There are better things to do in life.
Men love sex because sex is to conquer; to subdue and to win the desires of a woman by pleasing her and finally pleasing himself. The outcome (no punn intended) is to find the best suited woman to have and raise his children.
~ OK. That was the prehistoric instict expression.
Men love sex because if they dont' love sex, they will end up alone, lose custody of their children, lose their home, half their income and anything they can't carry away in one trip.
~ OK. That was the 21st century cynical expression.
Men love sex because sex feels fantastic.
From the words of Wikipedia:
In men
During orgasm, a human male experiences rapid, rhythmic contractions of the anal sphincter, the prostate, and the muscles of the penis. The sperm are transmitted up the vas deferens from the testicles, into the prostate gland as well as through the seminal vesicles to produce what is known as semen. The prostate produces a secretion that forms one of the components of ejaculate. Contraction of the sphincter and prostate force stored semen to be expelled through the penis's urethral opening. The process takes from three to ten seconds, and produces a warm and highly pleasurable feeling.
Normally, as a man ages, the amount of semen he ejaculates diminishes, and so does the duration of orgasms. This does not normally affect the intensity of pleasure, but merely shortens the duration.
After ejaculation, a refractory period usually occurs, during which a man cannot achieve another orgasm. This can last anywhere from less than a minute to several hours, depending on age and other individual factors.
Sensation
As a man nears orgasm during stimulation of the penis, he feels an intense and highly pleasurable pulsating sensation of neuromuscular euphoria. These pulses begin with a throb of the anal sphincter and travel to the tip of the penis. They eventually increase in speed and intensity as the orgasm approaches, until a final "plateau" of pleasure sustained for several seconds, the orgasm.
During orgasm, semen is usually ejaculated and may continue to be ejaculated for a few seconds after the euphoric sensation gradually tapers off. It is believed that the exact feeling of "orgasm" varies from one man to another, but most men agree that it is highly pleasurable.
In women
A typical woman's orgasm lasts much longer than that of a man. It is preceded by erection of the clitoris and moistening of the opening of the vagina. Some women exhibit a sex flush, a reddening of the skin over much of the body due to increased blood flow to the skin. As a woman nears orgasm, the clitoral glans moves inward under the clitoral hood, and the labia minora (inner lips) become darker. As orgasm becomes imminent, the outer third of the vagina tightens and narrows, while overall the vagina lengthens and dilates and also becomes congested from engorged soft tissue.
Orgasm and the brain
For women: During stroking of the clitoris, the parts of the female brain responsible for processing fear, anxiety and behavioral control start to relax and reduce in activity. This reaches a peak at orgasm when the female brain’s emotion centers are effectively closed down to produce an almost trance-like state.
52% of women fake orgasm:
For a variety of reasons, some people choose to fake an orgasm. A recent Redbook survey shows that 52% of women regularly fake orgasms. Only 17% are likely to have an orgasm during sexual intercourse, because the clitoris often is not stimulated enough by intercourse alone. 43% of women report “some kind of sexual problem,” such as inability to achieve orgasm, boredom with sex, or total lack of interest in sex.
Women do not necessarily need to acheive orgasm to feel sexually satisfied. Men, on the other hand, need to acheive orgasm to feel sexually satisfied, in most cases.
Hi, The Rings Of Saturn.
May I suggest that you either speak for yourself or state that what you are posting is mostly generalisations. There can be quite substantial differences in individual orgasmic experiences.
While I agree with most of what you have to say about male orgasms, I do not agree that they necessarily decrease in duration or in the amount of ejaculate delivered. I am of advanced years and my orgasms are now often 30 seconds to a minute - or more - in duration, much more intense than they ever were in my younger days and I seriously doubt that I deliver any less ejaculate during them either.
ladies, a question for you: Does the above make me a throwback or a keeper? LOL.
Just my 0.02.
You have a wonderful day. Best wishes. Deas Plant.
Why else? It is not only a 'release' for men, but it feels good as well. For women, if you have found the right 'match and fit for yourself, not so much as a 'release' but it feels good as well. Females are more emotional based where men are more on the physical aspects when it comes to LOVE.
I think sex is not outrightly equally as a result of love but of lust. Men love sex because that is how their body chemistry is but women love sex too when men handle it properly
Sex is equally a result of love... so i love sex!!!!!!!!!
It feels really good. And despite all the stereotypes, I think they want love and affection, too.
everybody likes sex if it's done the right way, because sometimes lets face it some guys are lost and a mess, but i agree with Lyz Lenz :)
Same reason women love sex. It's fun!