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How many times am I going to find pics of another guys package on my fiances cell phone?

This is the second time I've found pics of another guys package on my girls cell phone. She also sent and saved to her email. She claims this guy is just a weirdo and she gave him no reason to do this. She spent the entire day texting with this guy and then the pics arrived. Early in our relationship I found the same thing from another guy. Again she claimed innocence. She deletes every text she recieves. 100s daily.

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tyrone
tyroneSingle
Posted June 17, 2009

believe me bro, she is out tricking, it may not be sexing everyone but gettin guys flirtatious enough to get them to snap a pick of their Johnson(penis). i have called the party line and spoke to chicks bored in the middle of the night and some girls will send a boob or booty shot instead of calling . So man to man, its typical to be on some site or party line with people and to keep the interest send a shot of your piece. Its time to stop being in denial because your in love. Aint nan thing a person gon say to change that but now you have the info what you gon do? Dont argue no more and leave her phone be cause she tricking and eventually she gon meet the pnis behind the pick if it piques her curiosity. weirdo yeah right, he and her been chatting.

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missindependent
missindependentComplicatedyoung dreamer turned pragmatist
Posted June 13, 2009

Answer: You will continue to find them as long as you accept it. An underlying issue is the fact that you're going through her cell phone. If you continually confront her about it, she may decide to lock her phone or otherwise block your access. This doesn't change anything for you...it will only make it worse. I think you are obvoiusly in love with someone who doesn't respect your heart, or your intelligence for that matter. "He's just a weirdo. I don't know why he's texting me" says "You'll believe anything I tell you." It's hard to hear, but whether or not this is someone she's truly interested in, it's flat out wrong. You deserve someone who respects you more that that.

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Miraelf
MiraelfComplicatedDon't want it anymore
Posted June 13, 2009

This guy may be a weirdo, but obviously she has some sort of relationship with him. If she did not, she would not constantly test him, and then keep his picture. She is messing around on you, even if it is only cyber. Take it from someone who has been where she is.

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