Asked by Monica Freeman on
Do Men Fake Orgasms?
We all know women have been faking orgasms for centuries,
but do men also fake orgasms?
How can you tell?
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Well he just left, and he was his normal self.
I do understand i CAN happen at times,and there are days he turns 18hr workdays.
Bu we always discussed sexuality, so if something comes up in the future we woudld be more then able to talk about that.
Thanks for all the replies.
Monica
Qverb is right. I done it before too. Just because we ejaculate, doesn't mean we have an orgasm.
Good to hear its an apparent first, but, if you haven't already, you should still talk with him. Thankfully its not as touchy a subject as impotence, but if this is his first time ever not being able to finish or orgasm then you might still want to broach the subject with him. These conversations are never easy, but having them, working on them, and learning how to open up to each other through them will help out in a vast number of ways, including sex. This is a chance to start helping him feel free to discuss sexual things with you.
Well this is the first time this has happened, i just noticed that he wasnt just himself this time.
So i guess (and hope) that it just will stay with this one time.
Thanks all for your input.
Yes, we can ejaculate and not orgasm. it could be for any number of reasons, and any of them could have no bearing whatsoever on you (aside from a slight impact to your self esteem...possibly). If it is a regular thing then you both may want to really discuss this and possible seek help. If its not a regular thing then just reassure him he doesn't need to fake it. Keep in mind, in your case, he is young and still has a lot to learn.
Reason i asked the question is i think men can fake it, during intercourse it seemed my men did ejaculate without an orgasm!
So is it real or fake lol?
and since it was during intercourse i couldnt really see the ejaculation, but i had the feeling he did.
Sorry, here is an even better one, "The Myth of the Male Orgasm".
http://www.yourtango.com/20085203/the-myth-of-the-male-orgasm.html?page=...
If you would like to see more about it, YT has a bunch of articles about it. Just type "men faking orgasms" in the search bar and you'll see.
Hate to burst your bubbles ladies, but us guys can, and have, faked orgasms. Yia123, just because we ejaculate doesn't mean that we orgasmed. I've done it before, and I imagine that my disappointment was similar to what most women feel when they never get to really finish. Monica, there really isn't anyway to tell for sure. The few times I've faked it I was with a partner that really had no interest in having fun or enjoying sex, no matter all the different things I tried to do or get her to do. So, yes, I came, but I didn't orgasm.
In general, men won't fake it because we usually don't need to. If your man has been faking it from the start then you should both get some help if you haven't been able to help each other. If he hasn't been faking it from the start then you should be able to tell when he fakes it. Women tend to be more tuned in to body language then men, and you'll probably notice the difference.
nope, it's impossible for them to fake. We can all see when they ejaculate. They cannot fake an ejaculation.