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when do i tell myself to give up?

I have been with this guy for almost 2 yrs now and I thought ours was unique and true..the guy is younger than me by 10 yrs but that didnt stop me from falling for him,just recently i found out he has been chatting with another girl and is in to her cuz he admit it to one of his family about the girl as his gf but he dinied it when i ask him about her..am so confused and hurting and dont know if i should hold on or let him go..what hurts is accepting the fact that what we had will be all for nothing..and i still love him so much..pls i need help

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Posted May 14, 2009

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and not only was he cheating on me he had introduced her to the mother,his friends, and fell in love all while still with me. I felt embarrased after being around these people. I put him out and a year later this month after re-committing with each other in January, turns out he is still talking to her behind my back. I believe you need to nip this in the bud with this chick and maybe even allow one more chance. But remember, first time shame on u second time shame on me.

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brokenglass911
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Posted May 10, 2009

He introduced another girl to his family as his girlfriend and you're wondering whether or not you should hold on or let him go...Ah...that should be pretty self-explanatory.

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