Check out the website dr-robert.com

He has great articles on penis size and lots of other sex and love matters.

Check out the Dr. Robert ask the psychologist website at www.dr-robert.com

You can ask questions there, and also read answers to previous questions like yours.

Here is one from a man who thinks his penis is too small:

http://askdrrobert.dr-robert.com/penistoosmall.html

And here is another who wants to know if his penis is big enough for sex:

http://askdrrobert.dr-robert.com/mypenis.html

The site is great. Well worth a visit.

Weight is an issue? How?. There are pelvic floor exercises that will allow you to grip his penis and get the sensation,there are sex toys that can compensate and are a lot of fun. Now if the look of his penis is part of the problem then think is it him not applying the resources available of is it this one position?

Ok lady real deal let him go. I know easier said but ur just going to resent him if you don't leave now

I once dated a man that was no bigger than the size of my pinky. Really. However, he made the best of it! He had a hot tub out back and would position me just right and know exactly what to do. Whatever he lacked in size, he made up for in his zest for the perfect orgasm.

Not all women are searching for the perfect size. It's what they choose to do with what they have.

This is a really tough situation. I think what it comes down to is how important is it to you? I have to admit I'm a size queen and I've been with guys that seemed great otherwise but since I'm such a sexual person, I had to be 100% honest with myself and say that if I'm not completely sexually satisfied (within reason, I'm still a human being with compassion and understanding and not ridiculously demanding) that the relationship just isn't going to work on the long term. I am now with someone that is PERFECT for me, despite his less than horse-likec *c**k. My babylove is my 98% Prince Charming and what he lacks in size (and believe me, he's not small at all, just smaller than ideal) he makes up for in sexual adventure, open-mindedness and being an extremely loving and wonderful man & partner. Be honest with yourself and see if you can be truly happy with this person in the long term.

learn to deal with it or get out of the relationship.

I can say that if you tell him that his penis is too small, that if he has self-esteem issues and he's depressed already, then you're going to push him away and turn him off. I have heard of this before from a couple of size queens who all they want to do is brag about the pringles can schlong. Those who want Mr Ed horse, are very few and far between but they are out there. I would approach this in the most sensitive ways possible, it's ok if you tell him that he's not long enough for a certain position, but if you really love him and don't want to hurt him, be sure you limit your exposure of his penis size and weight issue to only a private blog or this site. If you talked to a friend of yours that gets word back to him, there is likely to be a very painful argument, or even a break up and permanent damage to his self image. He's not going to grow down there, you can do some exercises of the kegal muscles to help tighten up, other positions, toys if he's ok with them. Some women go though life with experiencing little or no orgasms, but still enjoy sex. I think that some people have been a little insensitive to this issue, but made some points. Just remember if you were in a position of feeling inadequate like with what women go through when their girls and don't get their breasts when all the other girls do. Just remember if you tell him and break up with him, there is the rare possibility that you can push him away forever, and that he might feel disabled and not ever try to get with another woman again. Do you really want to chance the possibility causing him to live the rest of his life miserable and alone by damaging his self-esteem, self-image and make him feel like he won't ever satisfy any woman if you are about average when compared to the rest of the population? Just a thought of what can happen to the extreme. There are some of us guys out here who are sensitive or extremely sensitive compared to the rest of the population too. Just weigh the in's and out's of your actions and ask yourself what good can come of it before you do it.

Hey there again, Babe's.... Betelgeuse, here...

I keep readin' people tellin' ya to buy him "extends" for his wee wee pee pee. Now that's thinkin'! You won't hurt his feelin's that way! Great idea!

Or, instead, I was thinkin,' cuz it's cheaper, if you know what I mean... maybe he could just buy you a needle and thread and ask if you'd mind sewin' yer hole smaller just a bit?

Either way you can both spare each other's feelin's!

I just love all this thoughful advise I read here! I wish I was there. (spits)

...I'd like a taco please.

Remember... just say my name. But ya gotta say it three times!

Hey Babe's... if it's too small I'm sure it ain't hurtin' him. R u sure he's even got it in there? ...if ya know what I mean. (spits)

If it's that small... you ain't gonna hurt 'em!

I can help you! Just say my name three times. But you gotta say it three times!

ok everyone seem to disagree 50/50. I have two ideas 1 try taking it in your a** and see how small you think it is then. And if that does not work think of all the starving lesbos who will go to bed with no penis at all tonight ;')
my point is if you realy love him there is always a way, face it or dont. hehehe

Your disappointment is understandable, which is the upset and frustration that would make you want to go find someone with a larger penis to satisfy you sexually. Also, not wanting to hurt his feelings is understandable, too. So don't do it, on both points. Your logic does not meet the rationale of consequential morals, or categorical morals. Every single person who ends up in jail or prison fails to meet the the rationale of consequential and categorical morals. In other words, "My dog and I are very hungry right now, but it is too far to walk to the store so I will eat my dog, instead."

Try "The Wedge". Look up Bed Wedge on Amazon, you can buy the "medical pillow wedge" for like $29. It positions you for the deepest penetration (and is great for oral).

I have had a guy with a large penis. Yea, it wasn't that great. I have had guys with average lengths and as long as he knows what he is doing, its great. If you love him and truly want to be with him, then get a Kama Sutra book or research sex positions that is beneficial for both of you. I totally feel you should have a conversation that you aren't pleased in the sex department but want to work together. As far as weight, you can say you want to start working out and he should join you so you can something together. A couple that exercises together, stays together. Do not bring up penis size and weight within days, weeks, or months of each other. Sex is very important in a relationship but it isn't always magical right away. You have to learn what is best for both partners and besides him getting plastic surgery, there is nothing he can do except bring up his game. If you really love him, just be honest and work on solutions. If you think this relationship will go somewhere, definitely invest in it. If not, do not bring up his size as a reason of breaking up.

LISTEN TO WHAT YOU SAYING!!

my boyfriends penis is too small and I'm turned off. How do I not hurt him, I love him very much?

We make love with my feet in the air for him to stay in. I'm not happy. How do you tell someone they are too small and don't turn you on. Weight is also an issue.

First of all this is completely all your fault!! You obviously didn't mind for all this time you been f*****g him and getting off! I mean you say " I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH " and now listen to you " I'M NOT HAPPY " " HIS PENIS IS TOO SMALL AND I'M TURNED OFF " and then you ask us to tell you " HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE THEY ARE TOO SMALL " "HOW DO I NOT HURT HIM " Weight also is an issue!!

You know it's really sick of you to ask for help because you don't want to hurt his feelings. You let this poor guy fall for you and probably really loves you and all this time you could have walked away just as unhappy as you are today as you should have done after the first time! You added weight also is an issue and it's probably always been an issue as well. Well your going to break his heart when you do walk away, but I think you should be honest with the guy! It's not him that has a small penis problem!!! It's you!! I believe in complete honesty with everyone even if it hurts someone. This poor guy that you've lead on for who knows how long deserves the whole truth about how you have led him on for so long and how you feel and have felt about his weight and his penis problem. He truly needs to find a reason for your wanting to leave him or when you do leave him he will always wonder for the rest of his life what he did wrong!! Even if you try to blame yourself , he will always think it was his fault. Now If you plan on staying with this guy because you do love him and you are honest with him at least to the point of letting him know that you aren't satisfied with him in the bedroom and suggest that you both need to try some new things in the bedroom. You need to be honest with him and figure out what will make you happy in the bedroom. Now if you plan on just dumping this guy and running. Then were back to you letting him know that you were the one with the problem and tell him the truth!! It's only fair!! How would you feel if some guy came along and you fell for him like this dude for you. And this guy was asking people on the net how was he going to get away from you because he wasn't happy with how saggy ass lose box and how awful you smelled all the time! I sure hope you've learned from this mistake how cruel and mean some people are! Good luck fixing your problem!

Buy him a penis pump for his birthday. J/K, that's a little harsh. Plus, I read those can damage a person's penis. I never realized most of my life that I have pretty decent size. So at least I have one thing going for me, I guess! Lol!

If sex is the only problem here in this relationship- you love him, and don't want to loose him... you are gonna have to bite it. get some sex toys, and do other things.. let him make you happy before you have sex. oral rocks! ((:

a good man is hard to find. dont hurt him, just get it right.

I had always wanted to try a well endowed man & was rather disappointed.. he was large & didn't know how to use it & it was very painful.... later i dated a hefty man with a small penis & he was wonderful.... sadly we didn't work out on a personal lvl... i'd just be honest with him.. granted size doesn't matter... but say you'd like to try something dift... toys oral etc & maybe if you want him larger gift him some extenz & do something that he might like to make it even.. that way it doesn't come across - here use this.. you're tiny - & more of a - hey lets spice it up -

ok for you people that are sitting here saying that you need a big penis to satisfy you. That only means one thing. 1. you're a slut that had sex with too many guys and now youre loose and unfortunately your mate isn't well endowed. Maybe if you kept your legs shut you wouldn't have these problems. My gf is about 60 lbs heaver than me and she can still ride me. What makes your bf different than me. Maybe if hes that small, have him eat watermelon skin or try extenze. I am done with this stupid conversation. I bet half of you are like 12 years old. EWWW

You say that you love him. Communicate with him. Tell him the truth. Try different positions...use sex toys. If all fails, see someone else.

Okay this is really retarded. I myself am not overly huge , but you know what, I use what I have and use it well. its not the size of the boat that matters, its how you steer that boat. Either her is fat and below average or you are fat and hes below average. I am about 5.5 HARD and I am about 5ft6 140 lbs and I have had sex with woman of all sizes. I was able to have full intercourse with a girl over 250 lbs. I think that its all in your head about this issue. You watch to much porn. Get your mind out of the gutter. Plus if you like this guy there are other ways that he can get you off. Oral sex and foreplay is a good way to get you stimulated. Not everyone is well endowed and btw most guys with bigger penis's suck in bed. I am a magician in bed and I am average. So basically you need to stop being so shallow and take advantage of what you have. Cheating is stupid and if you do that it will come back to haunt you.

Im in a similar situation,but i felt i was missing out as a small one really does nothing at all for me although we tried every position etc.So my advice is to talk about it.Instead of splitting up or cheating ,I have sex of a friend we both trust who has quite a big penis.I tell my partner about it,as he,s not present at the time and he gets a buzz and i play with his little pee pee .Sorted .as teebird says its not going to grow.

It will just cause problems later talk to him about your feelings the way you discuss the situation here online you should discuss this matter in the same way.You will never feel sexy satisfied unless you do something about this,he's thinking in his mind that you are satisfied with his sex.

O man just tell him to wear a strap on or to get a penis implant.. maybe you need to cheat on him for a bit like use your boyfriend for love,dating,movies,bliss.. then have some other guy on the side to give you some good big weenie action

Penis size can affect intercourse...
I myself am above average but I don't believe that is the reason for pleasing my girlfriend. The others have made a good point. You have to communicate with your partner, about whats pleasing and what isnt. You dont have to have intercourse with your girlfriend to make her orgasm. There are other ways.

If your boyfriend is just bad at pleasing you, he cant help that. That is unfortunate, but some people were just not made to be sex gods/goddesses. If penis size is important to you, then you will have to find someone else. Experiment, try new things. Research on it. Theres plenty of online stuff. (Like here lol)

do what tbone64 said. it works i no. my ex waz like that and we did that and i waz happy and waz in love too

All the people who are saying that you don't really love your boyfriend, or telling you that size does not matter, or saying a lot of crap that completely devalues how you feel really do not know what they are talking about. And I am insulted for you by the tell- him-that-your-vagina-is-way-too-stretched-for-his-penis-blame-it-on-foreign-objects comment. Her man probably has a decent-sized penis, so she should have just stayed shut. I loved my former boyfriend, but his penis was really, really small and his weight made it a problem. He lost some weight, but the penis was still small. I have always kept my vagina tight with my exercises, and still, he felt very, very small. It was a problem. But I loved him. He was amazing otherwise. The positions for a small penis can work, but you are still limited. Forget being on top, because it will slide out. If you are on the bottom, you will barely feel anything but his belly squishing you. You would have to supplement his penis with outside stimulation, and that sucks. A young woman can take only so much oral sex. Leave him. If you think it is a problem--regardless of how much you love him--you will not be happy. You need to leave him. I would not suggest telling him about his penis size;I am sure he knows. Just tell him that you don't feel as if both you are growing together.

Use your imagination! Bring some toys into play with! Body cream, crayons, candy, fruit..all that stuff!!!

Well i think i know what is your problem... That you don't LOVE him anymore. Maybe at one point you did but since now you start seeing the defects that your bf has your probably not that into him anymore. It has happen to me (not the same situation as the penis) but i started noticing what everyone else would notice that he was to much of an immature kid rather than a man. Once i started noting that everything he would do would get on my nerves, then one day i sat down and starting thinking why? why? why? then i realized that i did love him but wasn't in love with him anymore. We had to end it, after 5yrs in the relationship the "spice" was gone. On my part it was all good to end but on his side the immaturity kicked in and that's when i realized THANK GOD!!! Well maybe you should ask your self the same question as i did. GOOD LUCK! oh and one more thing if you aren't happy think about yourself and about what you want sometimes what you want is not what other people want and not all your decisions are going to make the other person or in that matter the rest happy! Talking by experience.

It's really not about the size, it's if you really love him or not. When you make love with someone it should be with someone you really care about. And if you think about how much you love him when he's making love to you, you will really enjoy him so much more.

hey its not abt the size ,its abt the hardness which satisfies a lady....if u think ur boyfrd penis is too small ,take my opnion n tell ur bf to start doin ram dev pranayam , it really works , in increasing sexual...power , i had been doin for last 2 year ..n now the suituation is out of control ;) .......n dont worry be happy every thing gona be all right.......

I went from having a boyfriend with a very big penis to one with a not so impressive one, it wasnt tiny, but not what i was used to. At the start i wasnt turned on by it or enjoyed having sex with him but now im used to it i love having sex with him and it feels so much better as we try new things all the time, try bringing a vibrator into your sex seshions too, its a lot of fun. But good luck in whatever you do, and about the weight thing...just try to get him to do more sports and cook good meals for him, itll be a slow process but hopefully youll see the change soon enough, if youre still not happy you will just have to leave him, as you cant stay in an unhappy relationship
x

I think you should tell him that your vagina is way too stretched for his penis, and blame it on foreign objects inserted in past....that way he will not feel bad for his tiny little wee wee and you can go your way without offending him

If he loses weight, his penis may be bigger since some of it may be hidden now by his belly, although you may not want to say this directly to him. You could try to get him to exercise or move more or eat better food. You could try exercising with him or going dancing or joining a softball team, whatever you guys enjoy. Even just walking more can help. Food is harder if you don't live together, but you can give him healthy food whenever you have the chance.

This website has some positions to try for shorter penises, including from behind. They also suggest doing a lot of foreplay, which is something you could ask for without talking about his size. http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_200/209_love_tip.html

There are things you can buy called penis extensions, if you can figure out a tactful way to suggest it. Or you could see if a French tickler helps. You can probably find them for sale all over the web or at adult stores.

you shouldn't have waited too long. I'm sure you noticed that the first time you had sex with him. You should have left him then. If you don't feel comfortable right now, believe me that won't change, and you will be misserable for too long.
Good luck

are you kidding me, you say its a turn off for you?....then leave the relationship! you cannot change that issue or LEARN to deal with it.....you know what you like and dont like, so why stay in the relationship when you allready know that HIS penis size is not working for you...it is not like its going to GROW!