Asked by sexykay21@yahoo.com on
should he be angry ?
my boyfriend is angry at me because we are not spending enough time together,reason is that i had some exam so i needed the time to study. he accuse me of cheating but he know's that i'm studying but he is insecure because we are not living together like one time.i try to see him but every time we meet we argue.
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a.) He is being unreasonable in asking you to not study for an exam. If it is important to you to study then you should put school first and relationship second. He'll just have to deal
b.) He sounds crazy insecure and honestly there is a red-flag for potentially abusive boyfriend here if he thinks you are cheating when you are simply doing school work. I would be very careful with this one.
c.) a relationship should bring more joy than stress. If you are fighting all the time then I would suggest limiting the time you spend together. Maybe y'all are spending too MUCH time together which can cause cabin fever and bickering. Take a break, take a breath and give each other some time to be missed.
d.) you sound young, but I would say that you should completely avoid living with this person at all costs. Until you have a base-line of trust he will use the living arrangement to isolate you and further control what you do with your time.
I would advise seeing a counselor and really moving away from this relationship. I have bad vibes about it.