Asked by JAMSKI2323 on
I WAS DRUNK AND SOMETHING HAPPENED..
I WAS DRUNK IN VEGAS AND I HAD SEX WITH MY HUSBANDS BEST FRIEND AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO, I FEEL REALLY BAD AND WANT TO TELL HIM BUT TO AFFRAID, I LOVE HIM BUT WAS DRUNK AND STUPID AND DID SOMETHING THAT SHOULD OF NEVER HAPPENED NOW I FEEL SO BAD WHEN THOSE TWO ARE AROUND EACH OTHER, I DONT THINK I CAN EVER BE MYSELF WHEN HIS FRIENDS AROUND, WHAT SHOULD I DO.
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You need to tell your husband. But you can't be telling him just to make yourself feel better because it is going to hurt him. You have to tell him because it is the right thing to do. You two may be able to work it out, or you may not. But this was your mistake, not his, so if it doesn't work out... you have to take full responsibility.
I agree with sanjay, tell your husband. He may divorce you and he will likely deal with his 'friend' in his own way. Guys cant keep quiet about something like this. Your husband will find out.
Ideally you should tell your husband because this is bound to come out sooner or later. I think their friendship may not make it thru this and neither may your marriage ..but a strong marriage will make it thru it and he will in his heart appreciate your telling him even when you did not have a need to. Oh ..another thing..stop drinking.