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he said he is too busy with work, 3 months met 3 times only for sex

he said was too busy with work and stressed too.dun have much time together..and had send me msg telling me although he is busy...i am always in his heart..but yet he blocked me on msn..which i dunno? and he will often go online to my social networking website to c whether i am at home n wat time i slp...cos he knew tat i will go on line once i reach home...but y is he acting tis way...we seldom talk on the phone but mainly msg thru handphone only..pls advise thanks

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Artemis
ArtemisSingleMature Compassionate Man Please!
Posted May 5, 2009

Depends on what you want. If you are looking for a fling and are ok with it, like Butterfly Kisses is with her bit o' booty then stick with him by all means.
But please don't invest your heart in this guy if you want more because he'll hurt you. He's doing everything to avoid you except when he wants to have sex with you.
Ask yourself what you want and need and then go get it honey with or without him xxxx

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Butterfly_Kisses
Butterfly_KissesStarting Oversingle, fun but longing
Posted May 5, 2009

How funny. Your situation almost reads like mine to a T. Except for he doesn't say I'm in his heart, and we don't IM, but we do text message. Yes, they are all correct. We are booty calls.

But like SantaCruzin said, if you can't handle it and that's not what you ultimately want out of this, then move on. I'm personally alright with it now, after I realized what it was. Keeping my options open and keeping an eye out for a possible long-term relationship, but I have my needs too. LOL....

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Gailegirl
GailegirlSingleNothing to talk about!
Posted May 4, 2009

Let me se if I can get this straight... you "are always in his heart", but you are blocked from his MSN,, he doesn't have time to see you, and he doesn't call so the only communication you have is via messaging? Then he stops by for sex? Please please know you are a booty call plain and simple and if you are not OK with this get out... respect yourself even if he won't. Have you been to his house? Met his friends?

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sola
solaEngagedhot,sexy,powerful,wet
Posted May 3, 2009

I am sorry but i have to agree with brkenglass911 booty call

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brokenglass911
brokenglass911ComplicatedCrazy, Beautiful, Outspoken, Hated
Posted May 3, 2009

You're a booty call.

Move on.

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Jess B
Jess BTakensmart girls rule
Posted May 3, 2009

why did he block you on MSN? is there perhaps someone that would see his msn and get mad? either way, it looks fishy....RUN!
I think he's not worth it...if he really cared it'd be about more then sex
let him know that he needs to make up his mind; either you are friends or in a relationship

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