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what's wrong with men and big boobs?

Ok.......I don't have one( a big one, i mean, b4 ur silly mind starts to wonder...lol) and i love the way mine is. But, most guys i meet n see simply go wild when they see a lady with big BOOBS!!!!!
HEEELLLLLLO! I Simply dont get it.....It's may not be real.

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ZMAN4U2HVE
ZMAN4U2HVESingleKINKY and HORNY
Posted July 26, 2009

I don't like big boobs ! I prefer teacup tities ! Besides more than a mouthul is wast !!

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RobertATO
RobertATOSingleSilly, Sappy, Sexy,meaningful
Posted July 22, 2009

Its a matter of preference. I like a smaller chest because the girls I've dated with a smaller chest are smaller other places giving me more pleasure

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Symian
SymianComplicatedHiding my true feelings...
Posted July 8, 2009

As a girl with an over-sized chest, I myself wonder what all the fuss is about. I've always loathed my chest, as apprently it eclipses my artistic ability, my knowledge, and well anything about my personality. I've dated men who have no idea that I can rebuild a transmission, play the clarinet, or bake and apple pie (crust and all) from scratch. Sadly, even my current guy is all about my chest. I caught him taking a picture of it over lunch one day and it made me feel like a piece of dirty meat.

But just like men, women have their preference when it comes to physical attributes in their mates. Just bring up penis size and see how uncomfortable men get.

Not all men like big boobs, it's just the ones who are very vocal about it.

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aphrodit3
aphrodit3Singleconfused but still hopeful
Posted May 1, 2009

Well, it is true to some extent, but it's all about personal preference. Some guys actually like girls with small breasts.

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Jadailha
JadailhaSingleI'm a romantic failure
Posted April 30, 2009

As humans, we're victims of what society states is attractive. For men, and I'm not a man, large breasts signify sexuality, reproduction, and willingness to be sexed. I had a man tell me this once. He also said that large breasts just were more attractive to most men, much in the same way large muscles, and washboard abs are to women. I think that people are visual, and what catches the eye, can often open doors.

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Qverb
QverbTakenRugburns, sarcasm, giggling, beautiful
Posted April 29, 2009

Bottom line it for you. A) Its all about how you percieve yourself to look. B) The senseless musings of a bunch of guys shouldn't sway your opinion of yourself first (see letter A), and if your man thinks you're the hottest thing since thigh-high boots then who cares what anyone else says. If you don't love who you are then how can you expect someone else to?

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BookMama
BookMamaMarriedHappily Married
Posted April 29, 2009

I think it's just instinctive. But there are guys who prefer all sizes, so it works out.

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torrieg
torriegSingleconfused
Posted April 29, 2009

I happen to have huge breasts and let me tell you they suck! Luckily they match my body and make me have a nice figure but the back problems and trying to find cute bras that wont brake the bank sucks. And not all guys like them big. I've had alot of my guy friends say that they preffer them smaller... no bigger then a C cup (I'm an F). My big brother even went as far as to say "more then a mouth full is a waste". So not all guys like them big. Then again my brother's wife does only have a b cup and my other brothers where giving him crap for it. LOL

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ssamm3131
ssamm3131MarriedI LOVE LIFE
Posted April 29, 2009

I GUESS I AM LUCKY MY HUBBY IS TOTALLY AGAINST ME GETTING IMPLANTS AND ALL MY EXS NEVER HAD A PROBLEM WITH SIZE. BUT A FRIEND OF MINE TOLD ME THAT MOST OF THE GUYS HE KNOWS THINK OF THEM AS A TROPHY. EVERYONE CAN SEE THEM AND WISH THEY HAD THEM. BUT I HAVE TO AGREE WITH LYZ MOST MEN LOVE WOMEN WHO ARE CONFIDENT WITH THEIR BODIES. I ALSO LEARNED THAT PEOPLE WHO FEEL BEAUTIFUL ARE SEEN AS SUCH.

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JayLove09
JayLove09TakenDeep, Lasting, Fulfilling, Unique
Posted April 29, 2009

My BF actually told me he thinks I should get breast implants, I told him I like mine just fine and if he doesn't then he should date someone else. A lot of men nowadays consider them selfs to be "breast men" and don't actually care if there real or fake. I cant see what the hype would be about. I'm a B cup and most guys I know would like it if there girl was a D cup even if they don't fit her body... I think thats crazy. I went to high school with girls who ended up having breast reductions because of back problems.

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Lyz Lenz
Lyz LenzMarriedCommunity Manager
Posted April 29, 2009

This is all relative. Guys like women who are confident with their bodies. Don't let some silly talk get you down.

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