My mother in law has lived w/ us for 4 1/2 years, her house was ruined by Hurricane Ivan. At first I didn't have a problem when she and her new husband came to help them out and to relocate to this area to be closer to the grandkids. Since that time my father in law has passed away and she is now making financial decisions that I don't agree with and that is putting a bigger burden on our household. She doesn't seem like she in her mind is in any hurry to move out and find a place of her own. How do I get her to leave or convience my husband to step up and tell her to leave.? The only good thing she does is watch the kids after school and the baby in the afternoons. She still can do that to feel needed but doesn't have to live in our house to do so.