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Should I continue to have sex with my mother-in-law

She initiated it and we were all have glasses of wine.
What should I do?

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Single
What? A status update?
"I can't relate"

Dude, that's messed up, break it off soon and don't tell anybody about it or you're gonna get busted.

OMG! What kinda mother is that? And what kinda husband are you?

Taken
I looove Zackkkk R!!!!!!

Your having sex with a mother in law?????? OMG! Well, I think you should break the news to her that you and her are not working out. But if you feel ok with that weirdness, that is your choise. I wish you luck

Single
Single
"I can't relate"

Hmmmm. Not all guys will stray, but for a mom to stab her daughter in the back like that just for a little nookie, that's pathetic. Surely she could find someone else to fcuk her. But I suspect she was always a lousy mom with low moral standards just like you.
Your mother-in-law and you both are acting really sleazy. What you are doing is totally hostile to your wife and her daughter (remember her?)

By the way, you WILL get caught. Your question is already on Google. Google tracks EVERYTHING, which I don't agree with, but that is another issue. So, I certainly hope that you didn't use your real first name.

All your wife has to do is search Google for that great Christmas gift she has been thinking of getting you this year and type in any of these words... and there you'll be!

"Should I" "my mother-in-law" "glasses" "wine"
"What should I"

Go ahead! Type just those words into Google! You actually show up at the top of the list!

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&source=hp&q=%22Should+I%22++%22my+mot...

Your poor wife. :(

This has got to be the worst cheating situation I have ever heard! NOTHING makes this ok. You are both extremely selfish to your wife and daughter. I'd kill both of you if I caught you. That would put a stop to it. So, stop it before something else does!

Complicated

I would like to add.... Shame on the mother-in-law as well! That's twisted to do that to one's daughter, no??!

Starting Over
trying and exhausting

No, that's horrible, Are you insane???? Clearly yes, you took a vow- shame on you!

Complicated
Loving my Corpsman Laico

She's your mother in law for a reason you married her daughter not her. I know that whole cougar club idea is going on but you have to realize what it will do to your family.

Single
"This happened to me."

this happened to me but with my fiances dad so i let him touch me then he got me drunk and he banged me i guess so go for it u should take what u can get!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Engaged
Live, love, laugh

If you have to ask, you already know the answer.

Complicated
"No Opinion"

whose better i grand ma is u got a problem then nobody can help but if your wife is then keep it on da DL and never turn back never go over with out your wife and deny 2 the fullest and hope theres no edvidence left r ur fckda

Single
searching for new boyfriend
"Hasn't happened to me, but I hear ya."

what???????????
are you insane...she's your mother in law..

Taken
straight to the point
"No Opinion"

is not disgusting but if shes ur mother in law that means ur married!..and yeah just remember the consequences..you wont be jus hurting urself you'd be hurting another family..well that is if you get caught..jus be careful

Married
getting a little better
"I've thought about this"

What you are doing is seen as a fantasy by many men. If you both are enjoying it well have fun. Just remember what you stand to lose if you get caught. Just imagine how your wife would live out the rest of her life knowing what you and her mother did.

Married
"I've thought about this"

I don't see why anyone thinks it's disgusting. You're not directly related. If I were you I'd keep doing it if you both enjoy it! My mother-in-law is hot as all hell. We're always flirting around with each other after a couple of glasses, and if the opportunity was there I would sleep with her without a second thought. Consider yourself lucky! ;-)

Single
trying to move on

Oh no this is terrible! Cheating is especially terrible but with your mother-in-law? Noooo...not cool.

Starting Over
"I've thought about this"

Absolutely! Keep doing it if she is good. :) Is she young enough to get pregnant?

Complicated
occasionally worthy of comment
"No Opinion"

Call Jerry Springer.

Single
maddison

Just go have sex with a man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Taken

Just.......... Ewwwwwwww. Stop it.

Engaged
spontaneous, passionate, playful, romantic

I really hope this is some sick joke.

weak boring physical nonmental

Nuh Uh! You cant blame it on the alcocol this time!

Taken
In LoVe,But confused :(

Are you Efine Kidding Me?!? STOP the madness and come clean with
your poor wife. :(

I am in love

OMFG....are you serious dude?????? Nooooooooo!!!!! STOP THIS NOW!!!

Single
Mature Compassionate Man Please!
"Hasn't happened to me, but I hear ya."

Are you winding us up Marc?
Seriously if this is the situation you're in get out now man!!

Complicated
Still Exploring...
"I've thought about this"

OMG Marc... you can't even think, you can blame the wine for this behavior.. you should have put your Mother-in-Law in her place right away and made excuses to your wife to never be alone with that awful woman, I feel really sorry for your wife... now she has two perverted people in her life. You should remember from this day forward, in any given situation how YOU would FEEL if it were YOU !!!

Married
I LOVE LIFE

My first question to you is-- ARE U OUT OF YOUR MIND???? I mean lets get real here is it that you want to tear your wife's heart out? I mean if she finds out that is what will happen. Think about it not only is she betrayed by her husband but also her mother. In the real world most of us know that some of us will be betrayed by our husbands, but not our mothers. I don't know how a mother could do this to her child. But that is not what you asked. NO NO NO you don't continue to sleep with your MIL. YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE!!!! Just Know this the truth always comes out, you need to talk to your MIL and end it and find a way to soften the blow to your wife. Though I doubt that is possible.

Complicated
not enough for me
"Hasn't happened to me, but I hear ya."

You really are asking this? Run! Run now and run far away from her. Nothing good can come of this.

Married
Be honest with yourself

The problem you now have is how long before your wife finds out because she WILL find out (and probably from her mother). You are in a world of hurt my friend. This is way worse than screwing her sister or friend. Wow.

Single
i'm not into you

Marc - unless you are trying to get on Maury's show I would end this affair before someone gets hurt.

Complicated
Expanding amounts of love.

I would say you should definitely NOT continue having sex with her. It's a betrayal to your wife and will inevitably cause a rift in your marriage and in your wife's relationship with her parents. Your MIL initiating contact does not make it OK. Your wife is likely to be devastated when she finds out. You should tell your MIL that you made a terrible mistake, it was a lapse of judgment, and you need to stop having a relationship with her.

Married
we are a family

Marc - I need to know more about this. How exactly did this happen?

If you are married, having sex with ANYONE other than your spouse is a supreme NO-NO! Having sex with your Mother-in-Law.....in a word.....ewwwwww.

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