Asked by sawhidden on
Why is my mother in law psychotic?
My husband and I have been married for 5 years and my husbands stepmother has had it out for me ever since we met. We have children together but she still acts crazy. I had a child when my husband and I met. I guess that is the reason why she started off not liking me. To get to my point she has done some down and dirty things to me. One time I thought I was having a nice conversation with her about my ex my childs father she suggested I use her phone and give him a call. So I did come to find out she only wanted me to call because she kept the number and called him herself to try and get dirt on me. Another situation she made a myspace page and posed as me saying awful things about me and was posing as me on this sight flirting with my ex and she made up her own sight with a ficticious name flirting with my ex. She called child protective services on me because I told her off. because she made rude comments about how the child my husband and I had together cried alot. She has lied about having breast cancer to us. Called and asked me how I think my husband would feel if she just went ahead and removed her breast. Keep in mind this is his stepmother. As of now we are not talking to her but the problem is now he cant talk to his father. Because his father doesnt believe him that she has done these crazy things. Should we just cut all ties and wait for his dad to come around or what?

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My stepmom is psychotic. Everytime I have a boyfriend she finds some way to ruin it. For Instance my ex couldn't drive down our block or she would call the cops.She crazy and does things to be on top. I sware she acts like a child. She has crazy glued my starightener, stole money from me, and accuses me of things I dont do. You can ask any of my exs how crazy she is. Now my boyfriend in trying to gets his papers to live her and she threatened to call immigration. She is crazy. Now she is trying to charge me rent to live in my dads house. She like writes fake comments on my myspace and stuff. She is crazy and she's my stepmother. She raised me and tells people I'm her daughter but she certaintly does not act like a mom.Does your husband having any siblings that are her children. I know my little brother and my stepbrother get treated like kings but not me. I'm like cinderella.
Yes. Cut all ties. This woman is toxic and out to destroy you. It's unfortunate, but you and your husband can foster her negativity. I think your husband should just explain to his father why they are cutting ties and say "we hope to be able to let you back in our lives with this negativity and poisonous behavior ends" and then just leave. It's tough, but you have to do that. No one benefits from that kind of behavior.