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continue to give him space, contact him or move on? help!

I am interested in someone who is going through a lot a the moment, and hasnt been in touch for a few weeks. Id like to get in touch and see how he is but dont want to make a fool of myself if he is not interested and just using problems as an excuse. Should I continue to give him space, contact him or move on?

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auranissa
auranissaSingleThankful 4 my boyfriend!
Posted April 21, 2009

Do it girl! It can't hurt (too much) just know that if he is not interested, he is not the best match for you at this time. There is never anything wrong with saying "hi" now and again. I noticed you asked this question a few days ago...have you already contacted him? If so how did it go?

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brokenglass911
brokenglass911ComplicatedCrazy, Beautiful, Outspoken, Hated
Posted April 18, 2009

I agree with Lyz. There is no harm in sending him an email, text, or calling simply to say, "Hey, how have you been?" Just be prepared for rejection.

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Lyz Lenz
Lyz LenzMarriedCommunity Manager
Posted April 18, 2009

I don't think there is anything wrong with dropping him a line and letting him know what you miss him and you've been thinking about him. But be prepared to move on.

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