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What do you want to change about You before you meet someone new?

Many have exited a relationship for various reasons but have an understanding there is something about themselves they would like to change about themselves before they meet someone new - not a facade but a real change - some its weight, some working out - for me its those and keeping (Sustaining) a perspective that life is short and its important not to sweat any of the little stuff - how about YOU?

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Ms Sue Brown
Ms Sue BrownComplicatedtroubled
Posted August 16, 2009

Would like to loose about 20 pounds, if I don't I won't sweat it. No big deal, my clothes are already loose on me now, but for my hearts sake, I'd like to take 20 off. And, no, I don't have brown hair anymore, it's auburn now. And I'm 60 now, not 24 as in the photo.

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banne
banneStarting OverCaring, giving, loyal, honest
Posted June 25, 2009

I haven't thought about this before, but...I don't think I would change anything before meeting someone new. I like myself even with the flaws and hope others like me for them also.

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torrieg
torriegSingleconfused
Posted April 28, 2009

For me I'd like to change the fact that I cheat. I have a problem of being addicted to sex and have a problem sticking with one person. I'd really like to change that and settle down. Or at least quit braking hearts along the way!

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Lyz Lenz
Lyz LenzMarriedCommunity Manager
Posted April 16, 2009

I've never thought like this. I guess I just think that people should take me for how I am and if they can't handle that then...oh well.

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