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Older men and younger women?
I have been involved with a manfor 8 months, that is 15 years my senior and we enjoy each others time and company, and although we talk about sex and tease, it has never come to that, should I be worried?
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I have been involved with a guy that was 7yrs older than i am, we enjoy doing every thing together and he ensure that i'm alway doing great.if there was any problem he would have all the answers but after a while i couldn't take it no longer because he was so possessive,controlling and jealous.I know that older guys tends to be controlling maybe its the fact that they are older.after all the relationship end cause he was just too much for me.
What are you doing?? Go home to your man and talk and tease him.
Older men are not nearly as sex driven as younger men. Mature older men (not all are) enjoy the trip along the way, they also enjoy the destination, but aren't any any hurry to get there. He is allowing you your space and pace, if you are ready drop some subtle hints, if he is able I am sure he is willing.
I wouldn't worry about it unless you want the relationship to go to the next level. If you want sex and he doesn't (or can't) then it's time for a discussion. But it may just be that your relationship is taking a different, slightly longer course. Like driving the scenic route to get your destination instead of taking the expressway.