Asked by Kataroo on
Give Advice: What Do Men Like About Oral Sex?
I'm willing to put in the work when it comes to giving a blow job, but it would be so helpful if someone could tell me what exactly men like.
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The key to memorable oral sex is in the details. Are you looking at him during the act? You should be. A sultry stare shows that you are connected to him and it's not just a chore. It would help to try to smile too. The sight of your happiness makes him feel that you actually enjoy giving head, as you should. Otherwise, why bother? You also want to incorporate your hands. I usually keep one hand at the base of the shaft and use the other hand to gently fondle his balls, as I suck. It's also very important to make it WET! You want to let the saliva flow freely. Precum? Use it to your advantage. Use your tongue to spread it around. Lick from the base of his shaft upwards, stopping to suck on his head. Don't be afraid to make noise either. Men love that popping sound made when his penis suddenly slips out of your mouth. And if you are into it (as I hope you are), don't be afraid to moan. Even using one hand to play with yourself will show him just how hot the act is. The ultimate gift of pleasure is showing the pleasure you get from giving. Happy Sucking! ;)
This is the correct link. It gives you a play by play on how to please your man man with oral sex.
Article: Oral Sex 101
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/how-to-get-the-man-of-your-dreams-com/d...
This should do the trick Kataroo!
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/how-to-get-the-man-of-your-dreams-com/d...
Oral sex for the male is much like vaginal sex only better. Why? Because a good giver of oral sex can provide the tightness of a young vagina and the busyness of a vigorous partner. Delicate mouthing and tongue work is good for the start but when things begin to get warm, switch to a tight, up and down motion with a helping hand work. If you can, stay with it while your partner ejaculates (my spouse did not like that but was excellent in every other way) The actual ejaculation is "sweet agony" that can only be imagined. Most men like to GIVE oral sex because it is almost a guaranteed way to get an orgasm for the partner- I had a long standing relationship with a woman who had NEVER had an orgasm before I gave her an oral one. The man must use his tongue delicately and his fingers in the peripheral areas with light massage. Works every time.
It is not necessarily the act itself, it is more the feeling that my partner cares enough about me to want to please me, make me feel good and receives enjoyment from doing so. I love to give my partner oral sex or any sex that will make her feel good, fulfilled and excited. Unfortunately her giving went away as soon as the ink was dry on the marriage license
I read this post with interest and then being a man had to ask myself - what do I like about oral sex. Well here's a few shockers for the ladies. 1 It's not that particularly enjoying given my wife oral but do it more because she likes it and it gets her really sizzling and worked up. 2 I really enjoy receiving a blowjob from her and consider it to be better than vaginal sex, unfortunately she claims my size hurts her jaw so this is something I get once a year from her if Im lucky and normal sex once every 2 weeks. Well lucky for me I just happen to be bi sexual and therefore only get starved by her. My male partner is also married and I geuss can be credited with the fact that he has saved our marriage as I do not and have not cheated on my wife except with him. My wife is also bi but has not been with another partner, male or female. since we got married 9 years ago. She knows about my bi tendency but does not know of the relationship. So why dont I get divorced? I love my wife and she is my world whilst my children are everything beautiful on that world. I will do everything to protect them from my other life.
u r disgusting. u r a horrible husband for cheating on ur wife. and yes it is cheating if u don't have enough balls to tell her what u are doing. u should be ashamed of urself. i challenge u to tell ur wife (the woman u say u will do anything for but really are just being damn selfish)people like you make me want to throw up. oh and by the way, im bi too and i dont cheat on my fiance'. so no you dont HAVE to, stupid.
Erm I think you need to post a question of your own!
I know my man likes it for me to suck on his penis slow and with an upward stroke squeezing the head of it when i come uo on it. I will use my tongue and lick on it and when i go down on it i come up with my hand so i can slightly squeeze the head as my mouth comes off it, some men mite like for you to squeeze a lil harder sometimes, as my boyfriend will tell me if he wants me to. Just make him feel like you are in love with his penis and that you enjoy every minute of sucking it and he will enjoy the feeling of you just making love to it.
men like when u lick their penis softly n keep on touchingg n massagingg it
I guess women or men there is no difference we are both humain being with desires and needs ,we do all in our possible to make our self happy . Anyway ask him or just think little big what do you like or why do you like ,so that may be more easy to understand why when and how .Keep going you are in the right way
My bf and I used to hate having sex on period; it was just too nasty. but after I read this useful and very interesting website – here is a link I learned how to spice it up during these days. Men are so simple, just give them great sex and you will keep them forever, LOL :)
my girlfreind loves it when we have oral sex but the one thing i ask her WHY do u like it?i would like some comments
hey babeee, that's not difficult to answer for me. it is a highly sensitive area with lots of pleasure zones. it feels divine when your man puts a hot wet tongue on your pussy and goes to work. if that tongue is gentle and moves slowly back and forth on all areas, on the outside, inside and dont forget the magic button (the clitoris)! and then as the lady becomes more aroused the tongue gains speed, it drives us crazy! she will be screaming for everything you got!!
trust me, if you get this right your lady will worship you, and she will then do absolutley anything if you can make her feel that good. hope that helps x
BECAUSE LOVING SOMEONE _U WANT TO PLEASE THEN AND BE PLEASED.ITS THE ULTIMATE WAY OF SHOWING LOVE.BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE WONT ADMIT THEY DO IT OR GET PLEASURE FROM IT.ALEX
yeahh she wudd oviouslyy like it as in oral sex when u lick her boobs she might have a sex feeling but when u start vid it she may not like it..............i had many cases like that i may advice u to have first oral sex vid her for a period of time n have inner sexx m a doctor n can give u guarantee that this vil definatelyy help u
Its a very intimate thing to have a man give a women oral sex and if you know what your doing, it feels wonderful and we don't ever want you to stop.
I have had Bjs from many women but have to say that if you want it done properly you need to get
a man to do it for you.
Women cant get the head movements just right but a mans head movement seem to come natural.
My wife of 15 years has still not got the hang of it but her brother is a master
you are a sick individual. you obviously have NO MORALS AND IN NO WAY LOVE YOUR WIFE! apparently, all loyalty has gone out the window for you. YOU ARE REALLY A SICK PERSON! not only are you hurting her, however, you'd be tearing apart her family, should you're habits be found out....oh....btw her brother its a traitor, in my book too......sickening.
You are a messed up person.. cause you can like men and all but you are messing with your wife's brother is wrong
you're married and messing with guys. your wife brother...............HUH CORRECT ME IF IM WRONG
Yeap.. his messed up!
i hope you dont mind me asking this but is you a bixsexual or gay?
All girls whom I met before I got married enjoyed oral sex as much as I do. At least three of them relished my ejaculation in their mouth, and a few other could never get their head around the idea of oral sex. I guess it is different from person to person. One of my ex sex buddies went down on me on our first sexual encounter without even waiting for a hint from me. Each of them had their own techniques and as one gets to know more about their partner, they know what he/she likes. I was once seeing a girl for a few months, whose libido was quite high, but never said a word during sex or moaned. She was always absolutely quiet. Most of the times, I had to ask her whether she had orgasm. Although she came across as a shy and introvert, and at times a bit timid, to be honest, brining her to climax was one of the toughest things I have ever done in my love life. But, whenever she went down on me, what can I say, she set the benchmark.
Its all in man's hand, how comfortable he makes her, especially, when she has inhibitions about oral sex. For a less adventurous woman, her partner's encouragement, and a lot of patience on his part, will pay high rewards, for both.
Swallowing is a different game altogether. How it makes a man feel is unexplainable. If the girl can start to enjoy it, then, it is perfect. From my experience, I always felt/feel special about those wonderful girls I had been with, who enjoyed it.
Well said!
Men, although they often exhibit the behavior
of a narrow, shallow gender they are still
somewhat varied.
This is my offering as a list of reasons why
a man values the service.
It's the temperature difference. The mouth is warmer .
It's the expert manipulation of the consummate BJ provider.
It's the often servile position with with eyes looking up....Biblical..
It's the excitement of the risk that the female may lash out and Bite Down!
It's the sucking sounds and moans and yum yum expressions.
It's the add on's of manipulating the sack and pressure on the scrotum.
It's the surrender of control of a man's most valued body part. (poll this).
It's the metaphors that whirl of who is actually in control.
It's the sense of worthiness that a man feels when the BJ is bestowed.
It's unknown excitement of where it will conclude and how.
But probably what a man is most turned on with is that you do it
because you love it and not because you have to.
hay, most people dont love it they like it because some people like doing it ever think of that?
I just know my Lover loves it and he knows how wet and horny I get while I'm sucking him off!!! Now I'm also curious and will have to ask what he loves about it.
well as for me, i love to give my man oral sex...i love to see the different faces he makes and the way he moans and calls my name... oral sex is a big part of a relationship. i agree with the others when they say u have to have enthusiasm....have fun with it. ur in control at this point, play with it in your mouth in a seductive way...make sure u tighten your jaw muscles as a suck on it they love the pressure..come up with a few tricks of your own...try putting chocolate syrup on it...wat i do is i like to lick on his balls..i sometimes go bck and forth inj a rythm from licking on his balls back to sucking on the head and rubbing up the shaft...this makes him go nuts! lol... i love and enjoy every minute of it. and as soon as he comes i swallow every drop leaving no evidence. he loves when i do that, and suck on my fingers when im done, letting him know how tasty he is! gurl just do you and have fun...
UH, UNnnn, how does that taste? He's got to be the cleanest and most committed man on earth other wise you've just sucked up some other woman's stuff!