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i've been coupled with this married man recently. i dont know whether our relationship will going further..??

I do love him so much. I would give my heart and my soul just to be with him for the rest of my life. But i don't know how much he loves me because of his status now. I just don't know whats going on myself but i just can't get him out of my mind. I couldn't see for how long and how was our relationship will going further or else. I can't help my self anymore. Hope will hear something from your side soon. Thanks a lot.

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brokenglass911
brokenglass911ComplicatedCrazy, Beautiful, Outspoken, Hated
Posted April 18, 2009

You should read my posts.

You can find them on my profile.

Never, ever, ever, never wait for a married man to leave his wife. Married men are awesome in the sack and can make a great time...BUT that's it. Very seldom does the man ever leave his wife, and you should never think that he will. It's only wishful thinking and you'll end up being hurt really bad.
Read my articles.

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been uesed for my money
been uesed for my moneyMarriedBe honest with yourself
Posted April 16, 2009

Dump him . . . NOW !! He is using you and youre letting him. Find a SINGLE, unattached man who isnt a liar and a cheat.

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Popple
PoppleMarriedMarriage on shaky ground
Posted April 13, 2009

You have to cut the ties right now, because you can't ask him to leave his wife for you. It's a bad way to start off the relationship. If you walk away and then he gets his life in order and finds you again when you are single, then you can move on with the relationship.

I know that you love him, but love sometimes isn't enough. Don't get involved with a man who can't be there for you - emotionally, spiritually - because he's already promised to be there for someone else.

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esther 31
esther 31EngagedIn love and engaged.
Posted April 13, 2009

Hi Miss Fareena,

From everything I've read, married men don't leave their wives for their other girlfriends. Unless he's already separated and just waiting for the divorce papers to go through, my advice is that you shouldn't count on him.

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