After I had my first child, my husband stopped be attracted to me. Or at least I think so because that's when we stopped having sex. At first I thought he might be finding it elsewhere, but after some investigation, I've found he's not. When I ask him about it, he just says he doesn't really feel like it anymore. But I still do. If I'm not getting my sexual needs fulfilled from my husband, where am I to turn without being unfaithful?