Take it from an ex-cougar lover, go have some fun! Its great for both of you. I'm guessing that you're past the BS games and know how to tell a guy what you want, especially in bed. Just be sure to take it for what it is, fun, and that your young'un knows and understands this as well...unless you do find yourself wanting a little more. I dated quite a few older women right out of the gates after I lost my virginity in college. For me it was the allure of someone experienced, beautiful, intelligent, and non-judgemental. At least my cougars were that way. It was a wonderful time for me, and they are dalliances that i remember fondly. They also had a profound impact on shaping who I am today. To my knowledge, they feel the same way.