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I hate how my fiance dresses!

I love my fiance, but he dresses like a slob. We started off as friends, when I didn't care how he looked. But now that we're engaged, it matters to me. How can i get him to dress better without hurting his feelings?

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VetteG
VetteGCorvette driver: my 4-wheel love affair.
Posted May 14, 2011

You can try giving him some hints and shopping with him, but some men don't change. If he's one of those, you might just have to decide: Can I love him as he is or will I always hope to change him?

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benbree
benbreeMarriedYou remain only human
Posted May 14, 2011

Hi esther 31,

You tell him what you think - sooner better than later. Otherwise, you let him be and get used to it.

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