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I don't want "traditional" sex.

My husband and I are a very proudly conservative couple. We go to church ever week. We embrace traditional family roles (he works, I stay home and raise the kids). But there's one place i'd like us to be a little less traditional, and that's the bedroom. How can I tell him I'd like to try some less "normal" sex? I don't want to immasculate him, but I think it might be fun to tie him up or do something else naughty.

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Vasha
VashaStarting OverSnoring
Posted May 14, 2011

I understand this. What have you been doing? Missionary only.oral him not you? sex positions Porn? It is very important not to fall into a rut but not scare him either. First determine what you want. In specific terms so you have the words, 2nd praise maneuver him to a new position or activity and praise. Role playing Mistress and slave where he is to fulfill your desires then you do it for him another night.

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benbree
benbreeMarriedYou remain only human
Posted May 14, 2011

Hi pgmar,

You say the words "let's try something new!" How do you define conservative? And why would this emasculate him? Do you know the person you married? Go for it and share with us your success.

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