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No nonsense about love!

His penis is too small.

This is probably going to make me sound like an awful person, but I'll say it anyway: my boyfriend's penis is too small. I never used to have a problem reaching orgasm in the girl-on-top position with my previous boyfriends, but i can't with him and I know it's because he's so tiny. I don't want to kill his ego, but no matter what we try, I can't seem to get off with him. It's been nearly six months now. What can i do?

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First of all, a guy has what he has. If you love him you should love him no matter what. A guy is MORE than a/his penis size! Have you tried other positions, more foreplay!? If you're having difficulty, you need to communicate outside of the bedroom & find ways to get what you want. The other thing I'd like to say that "it' the journey NOT the destination". If you're so focused on how "you can't get off" it will add to your problem. Just because something has worked for you in the past, doesn't mean it will with someone else. People are going to be different & not the same! Trick is to figure out what works NOW! You're with this guy, not your ex's. How would you feel being compared to his past gf's?! Have fun & communicate your concerns with him. I am sure he would not be happy knowing you're not enjoying yourself either! Maybe try some toys that can possibly help with this. Look into things together & spice it up! =)

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