Last night I went home with a guy from a bar. I had sex with him. Not the smartest thing, I know. But I realized today I actually really like him. He didn't want to have sex, I sort of pushed him into it, but it was amazing sex. And he was a total gentleman the whole time. I don't have his phone number, but I think I can find him on Facebook. Should I contact him? I've been obsessing about it a little. I'm 36 (I know, a little old to be going home with men at bars), and I want a real relationship. Did I fuck it up by sleeping with him? And if I do contact him--this is the real question--what should I say?