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Should I contact him?

Last night I went home with a guy from a bar. I had sex with him. Not the smartest thing, I know. But I realized today I actually really like him. He didn't want to have sex, I sort of pushed him into it, but it was amazing sex. And he was a total gentleman the whole time. I don't have his phone number, but I think I can find him on Facebook. Should I contact him? I've been obsessing about it a little. I'm 36 (I know, a little old to be going home with men at bars), and I want a real relationship. Did I fuck it up by sleeping with him? And if I do contact him--this is the real question--what should I say?

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wildchild
wildchildTaken
Posted May 10, 2009

oh hell take the plunge and find him, you may be pleasantly suprised. and if it does not work out then move on but if you don't try you might never know.

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