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Married
Marriage on shaky ground

Is it cheating if it's with another woman?

I have always fantasized about other women, even though I've only ever been with guys. I don't want to leave my husband over this (or maybe I do), but I know I feel so constricted. I sometimes think I should just have a fling and get it out of my system. Would it really be cheating, considering it would just be with a woman?

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Complicated
"I can't relate, but I hear ya"

Yes it is cheating, but as you said you dont want to leave him over this, or maybe you do, sounds to me there is all ready problems at home. Have you brought this up to him, most men would love to hear this, let him know its for you, let you try. maybe than you can up ur game and bring him into it. But if you are really serious about and the only thing holding you back is your hysband, I have a feeling the longer you crave this the more you will start to resent your husband. Its up to you how you want to do this, Im not going to tell you not to cheat, if you dont want to cheat and you really want this it mite be time to move on. If your not happy that its hard to make a happy relasonship

Married
I LOVE LIFE
"I've thought about this"

LET ME ASK YOU A QUESTION, IF YOUR HUSBAND WAS WITH ANOTHER MAN WOULD YOU SEE IT AS CHEATING? JUST REMEMBER MOST OF US HAVE HAD THOUGHTS OR FANTASIES ABOUT BEING WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. NOT THAT MANY ADMIT IT

Married
Happily Married

yes, it would be cheating.

Taken
Single Again !
"I've thought about this"

DUH HELLOOOOOO
Is your brain working!?
Of course its cheating DUH!

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