One of the most important things you must know in order to find or be found by your Soul Mate is that you must know yourself. The scripture says, “Know ye not your own selves.” 2 Corinthians 13:5b
•If you don’t know who you are how do you expect someone else to know who you are?
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•If you don’t know what you want how do you expect someone else to know what you want?
•If you don’t know what’s on the inside of you how can you expect to attract what is best for you?
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Remember, the definition of a Soul Mate is someone of the opposite sex to whom you feel deeply connected with. Someone you have great compatibility with and with whom you have a great spiritual, soul (mental), and physical attraction to. Someone when you look at and it’s like you’re looking at a mirror image of yourself and to this person you want to make a lifetime commitment with. And the feeling is mutual with both individuals. When you meet your Soul Mate it has the touch of divine grace, favor and amazement upon it and on earth nothing is more precious in life.
Your Soul Mate will be a mirror image of yourself so therefore look within yourself and see if the type of person you are is the type of person that you want in your life at this time. If you’re not pleased with the type of person you are inwardly then change your inner man into the person you want to attract and as surely as the night follows the day you will attract the type of person that you will become. Know yourself and know what type of characteristics, traits and personality you want in a Soul Mate and become that and then don’t deviate and accept less than what you are satisfied with. When you meet someone ask yourself, DOES THIS PERSON MATCH ME? Is this person A MIRROR IMAGE OF MYSELF? “As in water face answereth to face, so the heart of man to man.” Proverbs 27:19 © 2009 Dexter L. Jones