The word of God says, “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” Proverbs 4:24 The things which you are experiencing in your relationship life is a direct reflection of the things that are going on in your heart. If you have been single for many years it’s an outward manifestation of an inward cause. What’s going on within you is the cause of what’s happening on the outside of you. Therefore, in order to change the outside you must first change the inside. This is a glimpse of the law of cause and effect in action. The scripture says, “For as he (man/woman) thinketh in his heart so is he.” Proverbs 23:7 Let’s observe some of the causes of singleness and also some of the effects that it produces.
CAUSES / EFFECT
• Wrong thinking --Singleness
• Wrong talking --Producing death in your relationship life.
• Wrong imaginations --You see yourself alone with no Soul Mate.
• Wrong listening --You begin to focus on the negative
• Unbelief and doubt --Dates but not your true Soul Mate.
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So where does all this spring from? These causes are birthed in your heart and you are experiencing and manifesting the things which are most dominant in your heart. In order to change the effect you must start out by changing the causes and thereby eliminate any possible tendency of wrong thinking, wrong talking, wrong imaginations, wrong listening and unbelief and doubt. It resides within your power by the power of the Holy Ghost to change the causes and make them what you would like them to be. The scripture says, “Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us.” Ephesians 3:20