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Why Are You Without Your Soul Mate

Why Are You Without Your Soul Mate

The majority of individuals desire to meet and marry their Soul Mate. However, the sad reality is that most individuals have not, and if they continue on in the same vein as they've met other individuals neither will they meet their Soul Mate in the future. Life is fair, even though many times we may think that it's not and we have been handed a lemon in the area of relationships, we have gotten from life just what we've given out. The divorce rate is 1 out of every 2 marriages ending in divorce and this includes Christian marriages as well.

Well I going to give you a nugget of truth to show you how to turn lemon into lemonade in the area of relationships. The Law of life is stated according to the scripture, "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he." Proverbs 23:7 Individuals have dominate thoughts of singleness and detachment instead of dominate thoughts of attachement and meeting their Soul Mate. The real thoughs of your life is in the innermost recesses of your heart and those thoughts manifest into the external realm of reality. The scriptures says, "Keep thy heart with all diligence, for out of it comes the issues of life."

Your innermost thoughts of detachment and singleness can no more attract to you your Soul Mate than the mirror in your house can reflect back to you a different image than the one that is portrayed to it, before it. Your relationship life is a direct reflection of your dominating thought life, change your thoughts and you change your life. In a nutshell a man is what he thinks about all day long. What are you thinking about in reference to relationships on a daily basis? Singleness, detachement, attachement or meeting your Soul Mate? For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.


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