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Can Therapy Keep Him From Finishing Too Early?

Researchers are questioning whether therapy effectively treats premature ejaculation.

Experts previously believed, based on results of four research studies, that psychotherapy could be the answer to ending premature ejaculation. Here's how it works: Therapy helps ease the anxiety surrounding an early finish for both men and their partners. Since premature ejaculation is believed to be primarily a psychological issue, it seems like a pretty logical approach to combating the problem, right? Well, apparently it's not.

The Difficulties to Last Longer in Bed

The Difficulties to Last Longer in Bed

Solving premature ejaculation problem from a mental and emotional stand point is a lengthy process

Unable to last longer in bed is one of the well kept secrets which most men would not share. Around 30% of men suffer from premature ejaculation but only a few percentages of people seek help for the issue. Most men just ignore it or seek for their own cures in the hopes of dealing with it secretly. Premature ejaculation is due to a complex combination of physical and emotional factors. When combined with most men’s inability to talk about it, dealing with premature ejaculation becomes even more difficult.

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Why Men With Big Bellies Make Better Lovers

A recent study proves more is more in bed. Are big-bellied men really better lovers?

A recent study proves more is more in bed. A recent study out of Turkey concluded that overweight men with obvious bellies last longer in bed than their thinner counterparts. Men with a higher BMI and, yes, unsightly guts, lasted an average of 7.3 minutes where the slimmer of the group could barely hold on for 2 minutes. Ouch, right? Are big-bellied men really better lovers?

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1-Minute Man

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Is Sex Therapy For You? [VIDEO]

What happens during sex therapy, and can you and your partner benefit from it?

If you're like a ton of people, you've probably gone through sexual dry spells, lack of libido, periods of low sexual satisfaction, and other mojo-losing setbacks. But some sexual problems are so chronic that it's impossible to get your booty in gear without going to a sex therapist.

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Love Bytes: No Love For The Long-Legged?

Hottest Christmas movie scenes, creepy homemade sex dolls, and how to break up with a nice guy.

10 must-click love and relationship links: Anti-premature ejaculation pill, sexiest Christmas movie scenes, Tiger Woods divorce, catcalls or harassment?

A Temporary Cure For Quick Shooters

A Temporary Cure For Quick Shooters

Scientists have found a spray that may cure the minute (or less) man.

Researchers from all over are doing their best to improve everyone's sex lives, and one of its major offenders—premature ejaculation—has met its match. In spray form. A scientific study involving 300 European men, all suffering from a ghastly less than a minute romp in the hay, were divided into placebo and actual groups to see if the newest concoction of PSD502 spray does in fact increase lasting time. This magical spritz contains lidocaine and prilocaine, which are elements traditionally used for dermal anesthesia and numbing the skin before getting a tattoo or laser hair removal. Participants were asked to spray their nether regions five minutes before sex and abstain from masturbating or any other kind of genital stimulation for 24 hours before each sexual encounter. The men who got the spray increased their romp time to an average of 3.8 minutes, while ironically, the placebo group finally broke a minute. Hm. Might be worth looking into what was in that "placebo" bottle.

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How Yoga May Be The Answer To Better Sex

We always thought the downward facing dog looked and sounded a bit erotic...

A recent study claims women who practice yoga and some of the eastern-based thinking techniques of mindfulness report more satisfying sex lives. Yoga is based off many of the positions of the Kama Sutra while mindfulness may quell an over thinking female mind to focus on the moment. Yoga has also been proven to cure premature ejaculation amongst a select group of men in India.

Women Like Cuddling

Women Like Cuddling

Spooning, cuddling, hugging, women would like more of this, please.

A recent study has showed that women would prefer more cuddling. In fact, in relationship to more sex or more foreplay, would prefer cuddling over all of the above. Who doesn't like holding, right? This is one of those things that would be a good idea to ask for.

Does He Come Too Soon? It May Not Be His Fault.

Does He Come Too Soon? It May Not Be His Fault.

Premature ejaculation is a genetic, not psychological, problem according to Dutch researchers.

A group of Dutch researchers think they've finally pinpointed the biological difference behind men who suffer from premature ejaculation and those who can last much longer. Serotonin, the brain's natural mood regulator, seems to have a hand in whether or not a man comes very quickly or can hold out. So those who have premature ejaculation problems may not be the inexperienced, selfish louts we once they thought they were.