True love is real…it can happen and does happen, especially when there is a strong intention and a focus on magnetizing love… “But wait”, you may be saying, “I’ve watched The Secret, I’ve been meditating and praying and looking at my vision board daily for months (years) now…and… nothing! What’s up with that?”
Today, I’m going to share with you the missing link to you living your best life with your soulmate by your side. You ready? Here it is: Self Love. Think of yourself as a container for Self-Love. Here’s the rule though: you simply cannot have more love than the container. Therefore you must grow yourself to be a big energetic container so you cannot only hold more Self-Love but also attract Soulmate Love and the life of your dreams.
Sure, if you watch CNN (aka Constantly Negative News) too much or any news channel, you will hear the siren song of sadness, despair and horror that is happening at any given time around the world. I’m not saying to completely bury your head in the sand, but my question to you is, What are you focusing on?
Getting where you want to go in life can be fun…if you follow these principles: 1. Ask better questions. The quality of your life is determined by the quality of the questions you ask yourself. When you decide on a goal, ask yourself: “How can this be easy?”… and allow Spirit to provide you some answers. Just be open to whatever Spirit might send your way and keep asking yourself, “How can this be easy?”…You may be surprised by what will unfold!
Just like with any other area of your life, you need to be crystal clear to be able to be a magnet for what it is you want. Think about it- if you want are getting yourself ready to buy your dream car, you get a clear vision of the car you want, the ideal color, the make and model, and the performance…. and you get a clear FEELING of how it’s gonna feel when you are driving this dream car, right?
Do YOU have all the tools you need in hand or within your reach to magnetize your soulmate or achieve any other goal, but are just getting nowhere, wearing yourself out and dating the same person over and over in a different body? Keep reading… The first step to making it easier is to set your steering wheel gently in the right direction. What do I mean by that?
Sometimes it gets tough and you’re not so “into it” for awhile. Sometimes it’s not so friggin’ easy and is downright scary and your gremlin voice is tearing at your heart and soul telling you that you SHOULD have stayed with that man last year who was good enough or maybe you SHOULD have given that last boyfriend one more chance after he lied to you because now you’re getting old and lonely and you’ll never find anyone! Yep, that old b***h upstairs can be working on you overtime.
Adapted from “Enthusiasm Makes the Difference” by Norman Vincent Peale “Worry” can be like a thief in the night, stealing your joy, and blocking love from getting in our out. All of our LoveLaunch educational programs are designed to help you live your best life right now. That’s a lot harder if you’re worrying all the time. Practice this five point program, let the worry go and let the love shine in!
It’s too complicated. What if I’m not happy? What if I make the wrong choice- again? What if he dies? There’s no such thing as a soulmate, anyway. What if he cheats on me? I’m too picky. I’ll have to settle- everyone else I know has. I don’t know how to have a healthy relationship. I’m just damaged somehow. Something must be wrong with me.
Do these thoughts come up for you (or some version of them)? - I should lose weight and have a perfectly fit and toned body before I attract my beloved into my life. - I should be more financially stable or have a certain level of income before I manifest my soulmate - I should just have myself more together before he shows up.
By Jennifer A. Powell-Lunder, Psy.D., Talking Teenage for GALTime When the alarm goes off at 5AM I know I have to get up right away. Even a second of dozing off is a second too long of lost time. The day takes off from there and does not stop until my head hits the pillow at bedtime. “Stop the world, I want to get off,” I want to shout, but who has time?
