Dating Tips: 4 Ways To Be Authentically Hard To Get
Authenticity comes from being hard to get, not playing hard to get.
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Who's Playing Games? 4 Ways To Be Authentically Hard To Get

Playing hard to get and being hard to get are two very different things according to dating expert Elizabeth Stone. In order to maintain interest and avoid unobtainable expectations, one should never play this gimmicky game. Read on to learn the 4 ways you can (and should) be authentically hard to get.

eHarmony Presents: The Olympic Dating Games 2012
No need to be an Olympian to win a gold medal in eHarmony's 2012 Dating Games.
Love Buzz

4 Gold-Medal Dating Rules For Singles

Worry not, non-athletic individuals of the world. Sure, we don't excel in sport, but that doesn't mean we aren't good at other games. Take dating, for example.

 8 Worst Dating Tips I Have Ever Heard
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8 Worst Dating Tips I Have Ever Heard

I spend a great deal of time reading dating advice articles and information. I like to remain current on what other dating experts are offering people beause it allows me to stay critical about the advice I offer my readers. So far, the women I have worked with have confirmed for me that the advice I offer is both helpful and needed.

Women: Being Unavailable Versus Playing A Game
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Women: Being Unavailable Versus Playing A Game

When I am working with women moving on from a relationship and getting ready to date again, I encourage them to be a little less available than they had been in their last relationship. Inevitably, they say to me, "I don't want to play games. I want to be who I am." My question to them is: well, why is it that “who you are” is someone always ready to drop things and run when a man wants your attention? Why do you think that anyone would find that attractive?

Playing Hard To Get A Bad Idea?
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Playing Hard To Get A Bad Idea?

Do you think that playing hard to get will create the kind of romantic tension with your man that will make him crazy about you? Well, it probably will work– with most men and for a short while. The problem is that it won’t work in the long run with mature men who know that quality women are REAL people.

What Does Taking A Break Really Mean?
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What Does Taking A Break Really Mean?

  What the heck does “We are taking a break in our relationship” really mean? So many people are doing it today & how do they get away with it? It is the same as having your cake & eating it too ~ you may as well cut off a big piece & spoon feed it to them!

Why Tough Love Is Sometimes The Best Route
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Why Tough Love Is Sometimes The Best Route

Tough Love is… A hard and sometimes sad road we must walk down. It is a process we use when we need to step away from control or stop our desire to help a loved one who has become too dependent on drugs or alcohol. It could also be used for a person who just needs a huge wake up call when they are self destructing their own life, or the welfare of another.

cat and mouse
Should you be the pursuer or the pursued?
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Is This Normal? I Have To Chase Him

Dating is often a game of cat and mouse, but presumably, doesn't the mouse just give up and then you start looking for apartments together? This week, Cat (really, that's her name) wrote in to ask if it's normal for men to expect you to be in constant pursuit. She writes: "We hooked up for about 2 months and twice during that time he got upset for whatever reason (he plays the martyr bit, “you don’t have time for me”) and stopped talking to me without ever discussing it.

devil girl
Love Buzz

Do Bad Girls Really Get All The Guys?

Psychiatrist Carole Lieberman thinks she's got men all figured out, and since I'm too daft to know otherwise, let's assume that she does. Let's assume that she's the Dr. Love we've been looking for, that she's the Mr. Miyagi to our Daniel LaRusso, the George Washington to our Revolutionists, the answer to our prayers. In her new book, "Bad Girls," Lieberman extols the virtues of being, predictably, a bad girl. Intrigued?