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Help! I'm Not Physically Attracted To My Boyfriend [VIDEO]
Help! I'm Not Physically Attracted To My Boyfriend [VIDEO]

Help! I'm Not Physically Attracted To My Boyfriend

Is a relationship doomed if there's no chemistry?

Are you in a relationship with a great guy, but you're just not feeling that spark? Do you love spending time with your boyfriend, but there just isn't any chemistry? Are you thinking of ending things because you're just not that physically attracted to him? Is physical attraction necessary to make a relationship work?

Should You Change Your Appearance For A Man?
Should You Change Your Appearance For A Man?

Should You Change Your Appearance For A Man?

How to be as attractive on the outside as you are in the inside.

It's a known fact that men are visual creatures, which is why they're attracted to women who dress up their own natural beauty. But, does this mean you need a Clueless-type makeover to get a guy to like you? Doesn't that seem like you're changing yourself for him? The Number One Thing Men Find Attractive

Write About Boobies And Win!

Write About Boobies And Win!

Write about boobs in the community blog and you could win a $5 gift card to Starbucks.

We're running an ongoing contest on our Community Blog. Essentially, we give you a topic, you write a kick @$$ post about it in our community blog and share it with your friends and we pick a winner and send you the prize to your email. Write For YourTango And Win!

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#YTLovesTatas: Join Our Breast-Obsessed Twitter Party!

We'll be talking about why men love them, how to dress them up & more. Plus, you can win a sexy bra!

In honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we're doing our part by hosting a breast-obsessed Twitter party, and you're invited! Health & Life Coach and YourTango Expert, Nicole Burley, will get the convo going by tackling such topics as physical attraction, how to play up your best assets, men's favorite body parts and more. She’ll also be answering all of your love, sex and relationship-related questions.

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Misconceptions That Keep Men From Finding Love

A look at the limiting beliefs that hurt a man's dating game.

Recently I have noticed more and more limiting beliefs from my male clients. A look at the limiting beliefs that hurt a man's dating game.

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5 Tips For Choosing The Perfect First Date Outfit

With this advice, you'll never have to wonder "What do I wear?" before the big night again.

There are so many things to be concerned about before heading out on a first date: where to go, what to talk about, what not to talk about, etc. And yet, the number one question I always get from my clients who are about to meet someone for the first time is "What do I wear?" It may seem shallow, but how you dress on a first date is actually pretty important. Follow these five tips to make sure your outfit gets his approval.

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The Top 10 Traits That Attract A Woman To A Man

For women, attraction is more than a man's looks, especially in the long term.

Everyone knows that in a relationship, attraction goes well beyond physical traits. In a massive new survey of more than 20,000 men and women, YourTango teamed up with Glo.com and Chemistry.com to find out just how much power physical and non-physical traits hold over attraction within a relationship.

The One Feeling That Makes a Man Fall—And Stay—In Love

The One Feeling That Makes a Man Fall—And Stay—In Love

Find out what being in love really means to a man...and what to do if he’s not “feeling it” anymore.

I'm sure you've been in a relationship with a man who started out doing all kinds of things to surprise you, like coming up with plans and showing you how much he cared...and then he stopped. And I'm also sure that once he no longer did these unexpected things for you, it made you lose "that loving feeling" that used to drive you wild with excitement to see him and be with him. Well, the reality is that men often experience this same kind of thing with women. When a relationship starts to get more comfortable, more predictable, and has more routines in it, the kind of intense passion that a man once felt can sometimes fizzle out. But what fizzles out isn't just about the physical part of the relationship; it has to do with something I call "emotional attraction".

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I'm Not Attracted To Him: Do I Date Him? [VIDEO]

Rachel Greenwald offers some surprising insight.

In the latest video episode of Ask YourTango—where readers seek out advice on love and relationships—Rachel Greenwald answers a question about attraction. Should you go out with a guy if you're not attracted to him? Rachel offers some surprising insight.

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Can Tenderness And Sexual Heat Coexist?

How couples can have lusty, passionate sex AND tender love.

What's going on? Is lustful passion so objectifying that it negates tenderness? Is it so difficult for us to accept all that we are? Why can't we be mothers and fathers, needy children, able businesspeople, and also vixens and studs when the time is right?

What Are Signs Of Attraction

What Are Signs Of Attraction

In today's society, beauty, physical attraction, and sexuality are all commonly misunderstood as some transcendent inevitable fact; falsely interlocking the three makes it seem doubly true that in order to initiate attraction between a man and a woman, both sexes should be beautiful to be sexual. That of course is not true at all.