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Why Can't He Perform? Understanding Erectile Dysfunction

Men experience erectile dysfunction for a host of psychological and physical reasons.

Picture this: You're in the middle of a fierce makeout session and reach down to grab what you expect will be a hard, throbbing erection. Instead, your hand is met with a disappointingly soft penis. Or maybe he's got an erection now, but loses it before you can actually get busy. Sure, what goes up must—eventually—come down, but so soon? Your first thought is probably, "Why can't he get it up? Isn't he attracted to me?"

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Want To Know His Penis Size? Look At His Fingers

Study says ratio between index and ring finger correlates to the size of a man's package.

Ladies, there's no need to get into his pants (or receive a naughty picture message) in order to gauge the size of his package. And forget that old wives tale about the size of his shoes. Instead, just take a look at the length of his fingers.

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Will New "Viagra Condoms" Make Safe Sex More Appealing?

A new type of condom helps maintain a man's erection.

For years, manufacturers have gamely attempted to make condoms more fun to use, but alas, even the most delectably flavored varieties don't compensate for that sterile, rubbery sensation. Now, a British biotech firm has taken on the challenge by developing the CSD500, a condom that prolongs a man's erection — hence its unofficial nickname, the "Viagra condom."

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Study: Some "Male Extenders" Actually Work

New research suggests that penis pumps might be worth the money in length.

Feeling down about the size of your bulge? Forget everything you've heard about bogus penis enhancers and invest in a pump, because according to a new review of existing research, some penile extenders actually work.

Keeping an Erection During Oral Sex

Keeping an Erection During Oral Sex

Pharmaceutical companies would love you to pop a pill to solve your limp ways, this isn't necessary.

Question: The last time I was getting oral sex I lost my erection and now it happens often. Why does this happen and what can I do to stop it? This can be a very common experience. As rapidly as blood engorges your penis to make it erect, the blood can just as quickly drain away leaving you limp. In fact, many men also lose their erections during sexual intercourse.

A Vagina Speaks: A Deeper Understanding of the Vagina

A Vagina Speaks: A Deeper Understanding of the Vagina

What would a vagina say, if it could talk?

Introducing the Vagina Hello, I'm a vagina and we need to talk. In order to understand me, you must first understand the vessel of which I am a part as I am simply a small part of a woman. Her mind is the most important part. Women are multi-faceted and give off sparks of themselves. Look into a woman's eyes, talk to her, get to know her completely and let all her facets shine before you seek the sensual core.

For the Ladies: How to Give a Good Hand Job

For the Ladies: How to Give a Good Hand Job

Below is some advice (in bold) taken from the book The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D., followed by me adding my own thoughts in. (By the way, guys, if you really want your partner to know this stuff, you could show her this blog OR, sneakily, buy her the book and hope that she reads Chapter 8. But I recommend the direct approach.)

Nudity on TV Shouldn't be Taboo

Nudity on TV Shouldn't be Taboo

You can imagine my surprise when the camera showed the reporter whipping out his penis and urinating on the metal plate. I sat in immobile disbelief, staring at his penis, thinking, “There’s his penis. There’s his penis peeing, and it is on primetime British TV.”

To Thrust Or Not To Thrust...

To Thrust Or Not To Thrust...

I am betting that your current sexual paradigm is a far cry from where you started – Does ‘GET HARD – GET IN – GET OFF’ sound familiar? But, have you considered your thrusting?

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I Told Him He Had A Small Penis

Size matters: why is telling a man he has a small penis such a terrible thing to say?

"I told him he had a tiny penis. He would later tell me that on top of frantically Googling and Wiki-ing average member sizes, he carried the uncertainty of his manhood into his next relationship. But how could the most alpha dog, self-assured, cocky male be completely emasculated by any hint that his junk wasn't up to snuff? Why are men so sensitive about penis size?"