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Baby's first selfie!

Relax: It's Okay If You Don't Obsess Over Your Baby's Milestones

Didn't post your baby's first word on Facebook? It's ok. Live in the moment and go easy on yourself.

With my first daughter, I was certain I would treasure each and every memory forever. Four years later, I'm having trouble keeping track of those same special moments with my other two children. But if there's one thing I've learned as a mom of three, it's that I need to let go of the guilt and focus on what really matters.

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Have you heard this "dirty little secret" about divorced couples?

The Dirty Little Secret Of Divorced Parents

Divorced couples admit that having down time away from their kids allows them to be better parents.

How do parents relax? When it comes to this question, married parents may have something to learn from divorced parents. An expert explains what she calls "divorce's dirty little secret."

Prepare or Panic?

Prepare or Panic?

When it comes to tragedy, threat, danger or the unknown...what strategy are you teaching your kids?

In my home town, my family is usually fairly safe from natural disasters like Earthquakes, Tornadoes and Hurricanes, so I have had little reason to “train” my kiddos the strategies of preparing for such events. However, in the summer of 2011 we went through some pretty scary stuff from natural disasters to potential threats...and I had 2 young boys to get through it.  During that time, I was amazed at the number of people I witnessed over a period of 48 hours acting as though Armageddon was approaching…and they were sucking their children into their fear indu

 What Parents Secretly Think About Babysitters

What Parents Secretly Think About Babysitters

Parents, we are sharing your secret thoughts about how you really feel about your babysitter...

I apologize in advance if I offend anyone, but sometimes the truth hurts and I am going to be completely honest here.  I, Michelle Smith IAT, CPD have not only been a babysitter and nanny for over 14 years myself, but as the owner of Embracing Babies Staffing Agency I refer babysitters and nannies out to parent clients for my business.

5 Tips On Getting The Best Education For Your Kids

5 Tips On Getting The Best Education For Your Kids

Which school is right for YOUR child? How do you know you are making the best choice?

Let me warn you!  My ideas about school and education are anything but conventional...   How are your kids doing in school?  Do they excel in their studies?  Are they given attention for what they need to improve?  Do they fit in?  Are they HAPPY in school?  Do they even like it?  

Caregivers Need Care Too

Caregivers Need Care Too

Tips to aid parents and helping professionals engage in self care

I often meet with individuals who desperately need time for themselves.  Many of these individuals are professionals such as doctors, teachers, or daycare providers.  Others are full time parents or are caring for their own ailing parents.  Some are in a relationship with, or care for someone with mental or physical illness.  While the presentation is diverse, there is a common theme.  A theme of burnout, stress, and intense guilt related to wanting some “me time”.  Friendships, interests, and ho

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Happy Valentines Day!

5 Valentines Day Date Ideas For Frugal Parents

... because parents on a budget deserve romance, too!

Sure, you adore your kids, but let's face it, they sure make it tough for you to enjoy a spontaneous sexual romp with their dad. So, if you are in the mood for some adult time this Valentines Day, here are five ways to fan the heat without splurging on a sitter or a fancy restaurant.

Why You Should Be Listening To Your Children…Now

Why You Should Be Listening To Your Children…Now

Kids are smart. Watch your relationship improve when you really start listening...

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying that ALL of their ideas are good ones. In fact, many are silly, impossible or end up setting a bad precedent. Donuts and chocolate cake for breakfast? Drawing with permanent markers while sitting on your new couch? Of course not. However, many of the things they complain about when it comes to their parents are right on the money.

Gimmel - 3 Ways to Take the Pot - Lessons From Hanukkah

Gimmel - 3 Ways to Take the Pot - Lessons From Hanukkah

Hanukkah is an eight day Jewish celebration that can teach us much about improving our lives.

Hanukkah (or Chanukah or one of many other spellings) is a Jewish festival that comes around the time of Christmas.  Many people know it for the progressive lighting of the candles on its nine branched menorah, for latkes or potato pancakes, for gift giving, for singing and for dreidels.

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The Connecticut tragedy affects us all.

Tragedy In Connecticut: How To Talk To Your Kids

Reverend Christopher Smith offers advice about what to tell your children.

On one level, this is just one more tragedy in a series of tragedies that have occurred in our country. On another level, the victims here were considerably younger. Additionally, Newton, CT was also severely affected by Superstorm Sandy. However, the impact of a tragedy this large ripples across the country and beyond.