Ladies, it's time to take charge of your orgasm! Stop blaming your partner for not making it happen for you during sex. Think of your body as a high-performance vehicle that you're placing in the hands of a novice driver—your lover—each time you have sex. He wants you to reach the big O, but he needs some help operating your vehicle.
Your body temperature doesn't increase, and more ways he can tell you're totally faking it.
The orgasm is the one of the most enjoyable parts of sex. Unfortuantely, for many women, the orgasm is very difficult to achieve - a great deal because the iimpulse to achieve orgasm is connected to the brain! Our expert revals 5 ways for your brain to relax and your orgasm to come back.
In reality, many men are often focused on the end goal: orgasm. Rushing to the finish line, they often forget to be present and 'in the moment' — which is what women really want in bed. So how do you truly turn on and satisfy a woman? We turned to YourTango Experts Moushumi Ghose and Dr. Shoshana Bennett for advice.
Real women rarely buy those missile-style vibrators used in porn. Come on – they’re 10″ long and made of hard plastic. Seriously, do you really want to play with something made of hard, cheap plastic that looks more like a baseball bat than something you want inside you?
Most sexuality experts agree that cases in which a woman cannot have sexual arousal and climax are very rare. Dr. Vivienne Cass, in her book The Elusive Orgasm: A Woman's Guide to Why She Can't and How She Can Orgasm asserts that the only difference between a woman who can have a climax and one who can not is the level of arousal she reaches during sexual activity.
I am on a mission. I am bound and determined to teach women of all ages, throughout the globe the most important lesson you can learn: YOUR orgasm is YOUR responsibility. Some people say it doesn’t matter if you don’t have an orgasm. I say they are full of it.
Ladies, did you know the same muscle pregnant women practice to regain control of urination after child birth is the same muscle that women who have difficult time experiencing orgasm or encouraged to use? Well ladies let me tell you, if you want to increase your chances of experiencing an orgasm and having more intense orgasm you can not have a loose vagina. Loose vaginas make it difficult for a woman to experience and orgasm.
"Will I become addicted to my vibrator?" "Once I start using a vibrator, will I be able to climax without it?" "Will using a vibrator make me less sensitive?" These are just a few of the questions that have come up again and again over my ten years as the owner of a successful sex toy business.
There is so much misinformation out there about Kegels. Some women think they should do their Kegels while sitting down to urinate. Some women think that they should never do them because they have heard Kegels are bad for them. Other women just cannot figure out how to do their Kegels. Let’s get back to basics. What IS a Kegel? The Mayo Clinic defines this exercise as one that “…strengthen[s] the pelvic floor muscles, which support the uterus, bladder, and bowel.”
The age old habit of people pleasing is not dead. Women are still trained to play nice, or run the risk of being rejected, in and out of the bedroom. Is your favorite positon people pleasing style? If any of these scenarios ring true, you might just need a polite power adjustment. You feel guilty because your orgasm is taking too long. Playing nice rarely has rewards, in real life. If you don’t show you matter, how will your lover respect your needs or get good at making you come?
