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Oral Sex Definition Gets Dictionary Banned

Oral Sex Definition Gets Dictionary Banned

The oral sex entry in a Merriam Webster dictionary causes outrage in a California school system.

The parent of a fifth-grader was disturbed when his son looked up "oral sex" in Merriam Webster's 10th edition and found a definition with the word "genitals." "Oral stimulation of the genitals" in fact, was the exact definition. The nerve! Our question: why is this inappropriate? It is called "oral sex" afterall. Is the fact that gentials are involved supposed to be a shocker?

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The Best Of The Web: Mistresses & Sugar Mamas

Third base is illegal in NOLA? And why you shouldn't date actors?

A mistress messes with her man in Times Square. Third base is still illegal in New Orleans, really. Finding a sugar daddy. Sugar mamas are finding their feet. Do unemployed men cheat more or less? Reasons not to date actors. A simple trick for getting more online dates. 10 more things guys don't want to hear. Sometimes guys get aroused when hugging. Sex advice from homebrewers. How to meet a man in a bar by a professional wingwoman. Finally, reasonable New Years resolutions.

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Love Bytes: How To Buy Shoes For Him

Love Bytes: How To Buy Shoes For Him

Plus, ex encounters, lactation science, amazing va-jay-jays, and 8 relationship killers.

10 must-click love and relationship links: brothel hires male prostitute, 8 relationship killers, first date food, animal performs oral sex on itself, buying shoes for a guy.

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Best Bedroom Vows For 2010

Start off the new decade with a bang when you make these sexy resolutions.

Here are my resolutions for 2010: to go to Bikram yoga three days a week, to get in touch with friends I haven't seen in awhile, to pursue a new hobby (maybe photography), and to take two really awesome vacations. Oh, and I have a few sex resolutions too. Last year I vowed to give less blow jobs (achieved!), but 2010 is here, I'm back on the blowie train, and I'm ready to make a few new sexy vows for the next decade. After the jump are 25 sex resolutions—a few of them are mine, but I'm not telling which. What are your sex resolutions for the new year?

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How Important is Oral Sex To You?

How Important is Oral Sex To You?

  I don't think many women will disagree with the idea that foreplay is a must before having sex with a man for the first time. There's nothing more disappointing than having a man just trying to jump on top of you without giving your some mouth love- dry sex is as uncomfortable as a vending machine tampon. Agreed? Only during quickies should you forego oral sex. Any other time you better expect the man to get on his knees and give you some tongue action. I actually have to come out and admit that oral sex in porn is such a huge turn on. It's so sexy to see a man on his knees eating a woman and watching her get off as he licks her plate clean. It's hot.

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Linger: The Vagina Mint

Linger: The Intimate Mint

Fresh breath for your lady parts, designed to give you confidence and keep him begging for more!

Your lady parts have lips, sometimes they have teeth. They can burp too, and every once in a while they need a mint.

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He Won't Satisfy Me: What Should I Do?

The sex is bad, attempts to fix it aren't working, what should you do?

RH Reality Check (the website for "information and analysis for reproductive health") recently received the following letter from a reader named Jessica: "My boyfriend does not satisfy me sexually. He only lasts about ten minutes, he won't rub my clit because he doesn't want bodily fluids on his hand and he won't eat me out because he thinks it's nasty, but he thinks that I should give him head. We have been together two years and now it is really affecting me. What can I do?" We sound in.

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YourTango's Best Of The Web: Sex, Dating & More

YourTango's Best Of The Web: Sex, Dating & More

Attractive people earn more, the new third base and dating his family.

Should there be a new third base? How long is your longest crush? When you date his family. Some pickup lines really work. Some attractive women are just mean because they can get away with it. Tufts University demands a new level of dorm sex etiquette. When your neighbor hears your sex. What is dry sex and should you have it?

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How To Use A Toy With Your Man

Tips and tricks from the co-founder of the sex shop Babeland.

Claire Cavanah, co-founder of sex shop Babeland, gives tips on working a vibrator into your twosome.