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How do you use lube in the bedroom?
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4 New And Fun Ways To Use Lube With Your Man

Are we being a little too vanilla when it comes to lube usage? Can we put that bottle to work more often in the bedroom? As a matter of fact, yes. We sat down with relationship educator and author of Hot Monogamy, Pat Love, to brainstorm a few out-of-the-box ways lube can make hot sex even hotter.

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The 69 position is tricky but fun if done right...
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Love Bytes: How Do You Feel About "69?"

If you cheat once, are you always going to be a cheater? Do you know about CheaterVille? Isn't posting naked pics of your ex really mean? What 'The Bachelor' can teach us about dating. The male version of V-Day is something... interesting. Feelings aren't crazy, unless they are. An affair with a professor. How to get a baby inside you: FAST. And, the 69 position: Yay or nay?

5 Sex Moves Women Love, But Are Afraid To Ask For
What are you afraid to ask for in bed?
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5 Sex Moves Women Love, But Are Afraid To Ask For

I've never been afraid to ask for what I want in bed. I guess because during my teenage years I figured out I was/am a perv and I just owned it. But in my decade-plus of hooking up with dudes, I've come to see being clear about what I want is a bit rare: Guys have told me other women become self-conscious when asking for something risqué or kinky.

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Every woman should be able to feel fireworks!
Experts Blog

Tips For Improving Your Orgasm!

When it comes to getting 'turned-on', men are mostly driven by visual and physical stimulation. For women, sex is much more of a mental and emotional experience. Stress is the most common obstruction in being able to feel optimum sexual pleasure. If your mind is full of distracting thoughts or if you're upset about something, you may be unable to fully experience all of the magnificent sensations your body is capable of. It is imperative to reduce stress, tension and disturbance before embarking on a sexual journey...with or without a partner.

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She better make sure he's the right kind of guy.
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Love Bytes: 5 Dating Resolutions For A New Year

Dating rules to follow in the new year. Do you "have to" invite strangers to your wedding? After 33 years, she gets sick of waiting and proposes to him. What happens when your guy is terrible at performing oral sex? Why did she cheat on her husband? The awkward positions of spooning. Some dorks aren't grateful for girlfriends. How to be an ideal partner. 20 things to know about sex that you may not know. The danger of waiting for him to be ready.

All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed
Experts Blog

All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed

  All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed   The only way you will get this information out of a man is if you have seriously hurt his ego or made him extremely mad. Despite what one may think, a man will become uninterested for this very reason. He will never tell you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. How do you know you if a man likes your Vagina? How do you know he does not?

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"It's better to know it and not need it than to need it and not know it!"
Experts Blog

Oral Sex 101: What You Need To Know

If you don't like doing it, it leaves you in the position of finding the 2% of men who do not care anything about it. This is not a favorable position to be in. The odds are exceedingly against you. But keep in mind that it's always better to know what to do and not need it, than need it and not know what to do. Who knows? One day it may grow on you. (Pun intended.) Now, if you're ready to get your hands dirty, continue to read on.

Facebook Doesn't Want You Talking About Safe Sex
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Facebook Doesn't Want You Talking About Safe Sex

I'm the person who runs the Facebook page for YourTango. Yes, I'm that girl! Hello. Among many other things, my job is to facillitate conversations on topics that are central to living your best love life. I love this part of my job. I get to hear what our audience thinks and interact with them in a real and engaging manner. How many people can say that they get to talk to strangers about how to fight with your husband?

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Love Buzz

Get Blown Away, Louisiana! Oral Sex Is Now Legal

Believe it or not, if Bayou State residents were convicted of "unnatural carnal copulation" (aka oral and anal sex), they were at risk of being charged with a felony and forced to register as a sex offender. In addition to the charge, the label was also branded on driver's licenses. Looks like the Scarlet Letter had some competition, Hester Prynne.

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Love Buzz

8 Interesting Stats From New 'Playboy' Sex Survey

News flash: the internet has changed sex! (Not the mechanics, obviously—but how you get to the sexy time, yes.) But really, think about what the interet has brought to love and sex: Porn! Naked pictures! Online dating! Wait, you already knew that? Probably, but the results of a new Playboy sex study are still worth a look.

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Love Buzz

Vegetarians Like Oral Sex More Than Meat Eaters Do

What's the correlation between Twitter use and sex drive? Or between the word "grammar" and rough sex? This week, OkCupid published a series of infographics revealing the quirkiest sex trends among their extensive user base. You can see the charts for yourselves over at the OkTrends blog, but here are a few of our favorite factoids: