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Want Your Guy To Last Longer During Sex?
Are you dating a Two-Second Tommy? How to make sex last longer.

Want Your Guy To Last Longer During Sex?

A new study says the best way to extend the duration of sexual activity is...

If we're to base any of our actions on fruit flies, and science says we should, then if you want to extend the time in which your partner is able to "go" during sex, you may want to give your fella's penis a lick or two.

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4 Must Try Sexual Scenarios

4 Must Try Sexual Scenarios

#1 - Sex after Abstaining Some things are worth waiting for, including mindblowing sex. While the qualifications for incredible intimacy vary, for many new couples, the wait period is often dependent upon having gone on “x” number of dates, having been together for a certain length of time, or having fallen hopelessly in love.

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How do you use lube in the bedroom?

4 New And Fun Ways To Use Lube With Your Man

How to get lube involved in all the activities leading up to sex, like foreplay and massage.

Are we being a little too vanilla when it comes to lube usage? Can we put that bottle to work more often in the bedroom? As a matter of fact, yes. We sat down with relationship educator and author of Hot Monogamy, Pat Love, to brainstorm a few out-of-the-box ways lube can make hot sex even hotter.

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69
The 69 position is tricky but fun if done right...

Love Bytes: How Do You Feel About "69?"

Plus, once a cheater, always a cheater?

If you cheat once, are you always going to be a cheater? Do you know about CheaterVille? Isn't posting naked pics of your ex really mean? What 'The Bachelor' can teach us about dating. The male version of V-Day is something... interesting. Feelings aren't crazy, unless they are. An affair with a professor. How to get a baby inside you: FAST. And, the 69 position: Yay or nay?

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Retiree Thomas Mills was arrested for prostitution in South Carolina.

74-Year-Old Arrested For Offering Oral Sex To Cops

74-year-old Thomas Mills was arrested for offering undercover cops oral sex.

If 50 is the new 30, then perhaps 74 is the new age when it's appropriate to get arrested for prostitution.

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5 Sex Moves Women Love, But Are Afraid To Ask For
What are you afraid to ask for in bed?

5 Sex Moves Women Love, But Are Afraid To Ask For

It's time to let go of your fear and ask for what you want sexually.

I've never been afraid to ask for what I want in bed. I guess because during my teenage years I figured out I was/am a perv and I just owned it. But in my decade-plus of hooking up with dudes, I've come to see being clear about what I want is a bit rare: Guys have told me other women become self-conscious when asking for something risqué or kinky.

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Every woman should be able to feel fireworks!

Tips For Improving Your Orgasm!

Learn the art of orgasmic meditation and how to achieve the Big 'O' much easier...over & over again!

When it comes to getting 'turned-on', men are mostly driven by visual and physical stimulation. For women, sex is much more of a mental and emotional experience. Stress is the most common obstruction in being able to feel optimum sexual pleasure. If your mind is full of distracting thoughts or if you're upset about something, you may be unable to fully experience all of the magnificent sensations your body is capable of. It is imperative to reduce stress, tension and disturbance before embarking on a sexual journey...with or without a partner.

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new year dating resolutions
She better make sure he's the right kind of guy.

Love Bytes: 5 Dating Resolutions For A New Year

Plus, inviting strangers to your wedding.

Dating rules to follow in the new year. Do you "have to" invite strangers to your wedding? After 33 years, she gets sick of waiting and proposes to him. What happens when your guy is terrible at performing oral sex? Why did she cheat on her husband? The awkward positions of spooning. Some dorks aren't grateful for girlfriends. How to be an ideal partner. 20 things to know about sex that you may not know. The danger of waiting for him to be ready.

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The One Problem With Being His Booty Call

The One Problem With Being His Booty Call

"How in the hell did this happen when all I wanted was sex?" You have this one hormone to thank.

Well first let's define Booty Call. According to Urbandictionary.com definition numero 2. (The explanation our relationship coaches liked most) breaks it down pretty clear: Booty Call: (noun) a phonecall, page,or conversation aimed at getting into your pants. Not an invite to a movie or dinner, not just coffee, not a casual or formal get-together, just a plain old-fashioned “let’s fuck”

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Understanding Why Men Climax So Fast

Understanding Why Men Climax So Fast

With mind control, we can control our climax, but this usually requires some far-off thought.

  We’ve received this question from many women and have decided to address it here. As we often repeat, we’re here to help you understand how we think, and why we do what we do. The more you understand about us, the less confused you’ll be, and the easier it will be for you to have an open, successful relationship with the man of your dreams.

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All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed

All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed

Men will tell other men about how bad it was but they will not tell you.

  All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed   The only way you will get this information out of a man is if you have seriously hurt his ego or made him extremely mad. Despite what one may think, a man will become uninterested for this very reason. He will never tell you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. How do you know you if a man likes your Vagina? How do you know he does not?