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6 Habits to Stop Now for Online Dating Success
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6 Habits to Stop Now for Online Dating Success

Has it felt like a ghost town lately with very few or no posts or responses on your dating site account? Or, have you had plenty of communication with so-called “matches” who pretty quickly showed themselves to be creeps? You might wonder if online dating is worth the hassle and disappointment. You might also wonder if you’re just unlucky at love and destined to be alone.

3 Ways To Prevent Dating Heartbreak
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3 Ways To Prevent Dating Heartbreak

I got a call from my girlfriend Lena the other day. She was down in the dumps over a guy she met on the Internet. She and Brad had been dating for a month. Things seemed to heat up quite quickly. They had been intimate sexually and were also planning a weekend trip together. Lena was absolutely smitten. They had so much in common and she found him easy to talk to and loved spending time with him

ONLINE DATING PROFILES TO IGNORE
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ONLINE DATING PROFILES TO IGNORE

I actually thought that pleasant statements really meant something about the person when I went on dating sites. But after a lot of email and phone conversations, and writing Create New Love, I learned my lesson. They had a Pollyanna view of life, or they had their profile written by a professional, or they combined all the positive traits in profiles they read! So I learned to read between the lines. I’m going to show you some lines to “read between” so you can exclude those people now instead of discovering down the road that this really isn’t working. My free podcast covers even more of this. How do you respond when the person seems just so so nice? Be curious about your feelings. One man wrote:

Online Dating - How To Protect Yourself
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Online Dating - How To Protect Yourself

Jess (29) and Damian (29) met via a popular dating website four years ago. Since first connecting online, then dating for several months, they’ve travelled the world and have now set up a life for themselves in a one bedroom flat in Alexandria, Sydney. But their road to real-life romance was not without its challenges.

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The reasons may surprise you.
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Why Dudes Love Online Dating

In a recent study conducted by Harris Interactive for AnastasiaDate.com, a group of 1,000 men were polled on their thoughts on online dating. The men ranged in ages from 35-55. Over half of the men had tried online dating, and of those who tried, over 65 percent had actually met someone through the medium.

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Feeling frustrated?
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Why Online Dating Doesn't Work

In the current breed of "old dog" dating sites, there are a lot of users who just "pose and show off" to market themselves, answering questions dishonestly to make themselves seem more desirable. That makes it harder for you to select the singles who are right for you. When examining matches, we should cut out this "noisy data" and focus on the real goal: finding a compatible hook-up, friend, partner, soul mate ... whomever you are searching for. Plus, we should be able to do this quickly, easily and accurately. Don't you agree?

A Short Guide to Successful Online Dating
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A Short Guide to Successful Online Dating

Everybody wants to meet that special someone but what do you do, where do you go to meet them? Most people these days try to steer clear of the meat market that you find at bars, but at the same time, there are not many places where people can go to meet other singles. The newest trend is online dating where you can meet people who are looking for the same thing as you; their soul mate.

How To Google Your Date
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How To Google Your Date

First off, I must admit I have Googled a date. I used the conscious excuse that I’m a writer and I do research for a living. But to be honest, I wanted to know the guy I was about to go to the dog park with wasn’t a complete psychopath. Here’s my journey of Googling a date — let’s call him Fred. Fred lived in my neighborhood. I knew this because after I met him at Target, I saw him riding his bike past my house.

Online Dating Mistakes Men Make
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Online Dating Mistakes Men Make

 Thinking your bathroom is a good photo backdrop Online dating: It’s a phrase that used to be met with looks of puzzlement followed by concern, then massive amounts of judgment. Now, though, it seems that every singleton is attempting to find love through their keyboard, or knows someone who’s met their soul mate online. If you've tried and failed, fret not, guys, we’re here to help! Here are five things you’re doing totally wrong, and how to improve your online dating luck. -- By Gina Cohen

Online Dating Mistakes Women Make
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Online Dating Mistakes Women Make

 Posting revealing pics We checked with some of our favorite male counterparts to find out their biggest pet peeves about women when it comes to online dating, and we had to agree – sometimes we aren’t exactly putting our best foot forward. Here’s what we’re doing entirely wrong and how to fix it. -- By Gina Cohen

6 Tips for Drinking and Dating
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6 Tips for Drinking and Dating

Compared to most dating coaches, I have relatively few rules. However, of the rules that I do have in my book, Spin Your Web: How to Brand Yourself for Successful Online Dating, there is one that’s key to follow if you have any hope of your first date turning into something long term. Set a drinking limit BEFORE you head out on a date. It’s easy to feel a connection with someone after a few gin and tonics, but you also have to have a connection in the sobering light of day if you really want a successful relationship.

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Myth: Online Dating is all about sex.
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5 Myths About Online Dating

Let's face it: Online dating is quickly becoming the most mainstream method for finding a significant other. However, even while online dating is gaining popularity, not everyone has jumped on the bandwagon, in part due to the myths associated with it.

What Guys Keep Missing in Online Dating
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What Guys Keep Missing in Online Dating

When people think about the hardest part of online dating, they often point to the written profile. Oh man, it's hard to write about yourself, right? Funny thing is that while writing about yourself is a skill, it's not writing about yourself, per se, which is the point most men struggle with and stops them from getting dates. They are simply bad at engagement. The goal of every component of online dating is engagement.  

How Social Media Can Improve Your Relationship
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How Social Media Can Improve Your Relationship

I’m sure there have been more stories about social media hurting a budding relationship than helping it, but let’s play devil’s advocate and examine the other side. Is it actually possible for social media (i.e. Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Pinterest and the like) to improve a relationship?

Should I Leave Meeting A Special Someone to Serendipity?
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Should I Leave Meeting A Special Someone to Serendipity?

Question I'm an attractive and successful single woman who enjoys a fulfilling life but am just missing that special guy to share my life. Over the years, I've pretty much gone about my life with the belief that when I least expect it, I'll meet my special guy. This hasn't quite worked yet - any suggestions? Answer Since I’m a professional matchmaker, you’ll likely not be surprised to hear that I’m an advocate of being proactive in your love life.