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Diminish Online Dating Desperation
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Diminish Online Dating Desperation

How is online dating like being a senior in college? I recently visited my favorite undergrad professor when I took a trip to my alma mater. Seeing him and chatting with him in his messy, book-strewn office instantly transported me back to when I was a senior in college asking his sage advice about job-hunting.

7 Online Dating Mistakes To Look Out For
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7 Online Dating Mistakes To Look Out For

Recently I was coaching a woman on how to write her online profile. Before we wrote the profile, I asked her to send me her four best pictures. I asked her to do this because men are as visual as Scooby Doo on steroids. The first thing they do when they see your profile online is NOT read about your trip to Italy last summer . . . they want to see how hot you are. Keep in mind that every man has different taste in women, so what is “hot” to one man will be totally different than what is “hot” to another.

Why You Suck At Online Dating [EXPERT]
Are you tired of meeting Mr. Wrong?
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Why You Suck At Online Dating

Every week, I hear people complain that they attract all the wrong people when they go on dating sites like Match.com or eHarmony. The opportunity is there to specify who you are and what kind of partner you would like, but most people go through tons of unappealing dates before finding someone suitable. So, what goes wrong?

How Dating Over 50 Is Like Playing Golf [EXPERT]
Golf sounds fun. Dating? Not so much.
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How Dating Over 50 Is Like Playing Golf

When you haven't dated for some time, the idea of getting back out there can feel overwhelming. The best dating advice I can give is to take the pressure off yourself and the dating process. Sure, it sounds simple, but it can completely change your experience and improve your odds of success. Here's how.

Strange Brew:  The Craigslist Personals
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Strange Brew: The Craigslist Personals

  If you ever find yourself completely bored AND horny AND without a date on a night when you REALLY want a date . . . . Then I sort of recommend checking out the Craigslist personals. Mind you, this is not a full fledge referral. In fact, based on my recent experience with answering a dozen advertisements on CL, I would have to say I’m only mildly lukewarm, half-heartedly encouraging you to try it. Want to know why? Because the men there are not really looking for what they say they want. I know—confused men on the Internet?—surprise!

How To Talk To Women: 5 Tips
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How To Talk To Women: 5 Tips

One-liners may initially get a woman’s attention; however, what are you doing to keep the conversation going? I often get asked by my male client’s how they can get more dates. I often ask why first. Why do you want to date women? If you’re just focused on numbers or sex, then you’re not going to get many numbers, or go on many second dates.

10 Pros & Cons Of Online Dating [EXPERT]
Are you looking for love online?
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10 Pros & Cons Of Online Dating

The advances in technology in the last 20 years have changed society and culture. One of the areas of our lives where these technological transformations have been especially striking is in the dating scene. Use of the Internet has changed the way we date, offering both positive and negative consequences.

WHAT TO DO WHEN SOMEONE STOPS EMAILING
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WHAT TO DO WHEN SOMEONE STOPS EMAILING

A big issue with online dating is that people often stop communicating abruptly and for no apparent reason.  Most of my clients just figure that the other person lost interest or that they must of done something to turn the other person off, and they give up.  As hard as it is not to take this stuff personally, you can’t let it get to you.  People stop writing for all kinds of reasons, none of them having to do with you.  Maybe they lost a job, are dealing with family issues, or just got bored .  Let’s be real.  Most of us don’t finish ever

5 Tips To Prevent Dating Burnout [EXPERT]
Sometimes, all it takes is meeting new people.
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5 Tips To Prevent Dating Burnout

Are you single, looking for a relationship, but have grown tired of the whole dating scene? Are you finding yourself bored, annoyed and just plain frustrated at the thought of meeting new people? Chances are that you are suffering from a case of dating burnout.

11 Ways to Mess Up Your Dating Profile
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11 Ways to Mess Up Your Dating Profile

When you look for love online, your profile is almost always the very first impression of you that a potential date has. That's why it's important to make it as alluring as possible, and to eliminate any red flags that cause men to navigate away. Have a friend look over your profile with you, and double-check that you are not committing any of these online dating profile don'ts: 1. Telling guys not to contact you if they're immature. This makes you look like you have growing up to do.

The Red Flags Of Online Dating [EXPERT]
You could be one click away from true love ... just watch out for these red flags!
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The Red Flags Of Online Dating

How many of you have dated someone only for it to not work out? When you analyzed what went wrong with 20/20 vision, did you realize there were red flags from the start but you didn't really see them? Or, did you choose to ignore them?

Avoiding Rejection Online
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Avoiding Rejection Online

Nobody likes to be rejected. It can do a number on your confidence and self-esteem. While everyone involved in online dating will face rejection at one point or another, there are a few things you can do that will reduce your chances of winding up in the discard pile. Check out the tips below to lower your chances of being rejected online:

Date #2 At His Place: Innocent Invite Or Sexual Scheme? [EXPERT]
Is dinner at his place code for sex?
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Date #2 At His Place: Innocent Invite Or Sexual Scheme?

My client Kendra met Mike through an online dating site. The first date went great. Kendra found Mike attractive, a good conversationalist and friendly. She felt comfortable with him and thought he had serious potential. Mike sent Kendra an email the next day saying he had a nice time. Then, three days later, he emailed Kendra offering to cook dinner for her. This proposition put Kendra in a quandary.

Got A Sexual Fetish? There's A Dating Site For That [EXPERT]
You can finally find someone who shares your foot fetish!
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Got A Sexual Fetish? There's A Dating Site For That

There are many advantages at your fingertips in this new world of online dating sites. In the search for your perfect match, you are not only able to key in the height, weight, age, race, religious preference and locale of a potential partner, but now you can also key in any specific kink that you may desire. New online fetish dating sites are popping up on a daily basis.