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Older Women - Can They Still Have 'It'?

Older Women - Can They Still Have 'It'?

Is it okay for a woman who is called 'Grandma' to also be called 'sexy'?

Sexiness is an elusive thing. Ask one person what they think is sexy and they’ll tell you muscular arms, ask another and they’ll tell you a sense of humor. Rarely do people think about age as being sexy. But there’s no reason it can’t be. These days women are taking better and better care of themselves. Pilates, Yoga, health-consciousness, hair dye, even plastic surgery – these are just a few of the things we have these days that allow us to appear to age slower.

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Older women make the best lovers, according to the guys.

Why Men Prefer Older Women In Bed

Learn why the cougar is hunted by so many men.

Once he's with a cougar, he'll be hard pressed to find a better tutor. The young man who has a sexual encounter with an older woman will remember it as some of the best sex of his life.

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Cougars: Not as frisky as we once thought.

Is The Era Of The Cougar Over?

A new study shows that men and women hit their sexual peaks at different ages than we thought.

At one point, cougars, or more accurately, older women, were revered for their sexuality. The saying "a woman is like a fine wine" and that Cougar Town show have seeped into our culture. But a new survey throws all that out the window...

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Hey señora, let's get a cuarto.

Older Men Have Much More Sex Than Older Women (At Least In Spain)

We're glad they're sexually active, but the numbers just don't add up.

Who do you think of when you think of the most amorous people on Earth? Personally, I think of reality TV actors and actresses. But some of you think of denizens of southern Europe; your Frenchmen, Italians, Portuguese and Spaniards. The latter were recently the subject of a study that proved they are pretty damned into getting their swerve on at any age.

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Royce Reed grew quite a fan base while she was alive.

4 Reasons Gay Guys Love Quirky Old Women

LGBTQ people love certain old dames.

Royce Reed died recently. You may not know who she was. There is only a handful of obsessed admirers who regularly visit the Facebook page dedicated to Royce and her former sidekick, Marilyn Hoggatt.

Three Women, One Man and that Stinky Blanket

Three Women, One Man and that Stinky Blanket

Walter thought he had it made . . . . .

by Julie Robinson   We decided to meet for drinks and snacks at Hamburger Mary’s because the beer is cheap, the patio is festive, and it’s always fun to chat up the trannies.  It was our first girls’ night out together and seeing that the conversation quickly steered its way to penises, I felt right at home with my new friends.

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Betty White rules!

For Women, Sex Gets Better With Age—Right, Betty White?

As women age, their sexual desire declines -- but they're still incredibly satisfied in the bedroom.

Women like Betty White know that aging doesn't have to be something we dread. Yes, body parts may sag, faces may wrinkle and hairs may turn white, but getting older promises much more than a change in appearance—it promises high sexual satisfaction, too.

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What's So Great About Cougars? The Phenomenon Explained

Believe it or not, cougars are on to something by preying on younger men.

Cougars—they seem to be such a hot commodity these days! But, what is it about being a cougar that's so alluring? If you only date older men, are you missing out? 15 Shocking Facts About Cougar Couples In this video, Life Coach and YourTango expert, Inez Bracy, reveals the advantages and disadvantages of being a woman who dates younger male cubs. And she would know, she's been a cougar herself!

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Are Guys in their Twenties the New Designer Drug?

Sex and the Psychological City; A Relationship Blog on Sex, Friendship, Intimacy and Love

Is dating a younger man right for you? For the most part, age is just a number. What matters much more is a compatible level of psychological maturity. By psychological maturity, I am referring to the emotional age rather than the biological one. More and more women are getting graduate degrees, building successful careers, and marrying later, or not at all. Also, single motherhood and sperm donors are becoming increasingly frequent. In other words, women are less likely to need a man to take care of them, and the rules of age-appropriate dating have probably changed forever.

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The Truth About Cougars: What It's Like To Date A Younger Man

The pros and cons of an older woman dating a younger man.

Dating and mating a man who's at least a decade your junior may sound like the ultimate ego boost—and it is, at least in the beginning. Yet as experienced Cougars will tell you, that's only a small part of a complex equation.